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Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

…Late start.

Thanks to Kristi for her continuing efforts to untangle the ‘Hydra of html’ that has been loosed upon her by the dark god, Inlinkz. (visual: wading through coiling serpentine shapes, needle-teeth scything the air with toxic whispers, brown-cardboard packing boxes held overhead, very much 1940s jungle thriller…’cept in the dry, high-mountain region of the country and wards-full of friends, none of whom will get all bug-eyed, muttering something about ‘bad ju ju‘ and run off down the suburban street.) Thanks Kristi!

Well… that certainly puts a modicum of pressure on this here list of Ten Things of Thankful, doan it?

1) Una:  for being my role model.

2) Phyllis: for being my enabler (in a good way…mostly)

3) the Wakefield Doctrine: for sine qua non(ing) me in this realm.

4) the Writers Club: something new(ish) (you know I’m a clark, right? welll what’s more natural than my wanting to start a club?  (yeah… that’s the non-verbal sound I made lol)

5) (it’s true, though. It will be a club and not a group… (first qualification for applicants! sense the difference in those two: club v group)

6) The internet and it’s associated technology: it widens the world and allows us all to ‘get a whole new group of everyone’*.

7) Lizzi St. Claire (nee Lewis)  talk about your sine qua!  She created this place in the ‘sphere. Not because it would become a cool place for people of good intent to gather and allow identification among very different lives to take place. No, she did it because…. And she did it alone. At the beginning time, when the Ten Things were simply a recurring theme among the posts in her blog. Whether anyone read it or not. Very cool.

8) THIS SPACE AVAILABLE (Anyone out there reading and really would like to be writing (a TToT post) but …not…quite….ready. Try this: send in your Item of Thankful as a comment (with whatever attribution you prefer**) and I’ll post it here.

9) Sunday Supplement:

So, about this Writers Club.  My interest in writing is attributable to my decision to participate in the blogging community. It is, imo, a literal world or a literary world…or maybe a world of the written word. Of course, not that everyone in the blogosphere is obsessed writing. They are as good as is necessary to their enjoyment of this place. Speaking for myself, from the moment I hit ‘Publish’ on my first Doctrine post, I knew I’d never stop playing catch-up, in terms of my skills against the demands of my ambitions.

Anyway. The idea of having a ‘place’ where different people can try different things, writingistically-speaking strikes me as a good thing. We can share ideas, problems tricks and successes as we follow whatever our path in this world of imagination and ideas takes us. So I set up a site but I need to get it organized so that we have designated common areas and each of us can set up projects that we might want to try. I’m using ‘Pages’ for this, cause we can make them ‘private’. More to follow.

Oh, yeah, that and write a YA mystery series by the name of ‘The Hobbomock Chronicles’. So if you’re up for some interesting times in a tiny corner of the virtual world, let me know.

10) Secret Rule 1.3 Go ahead, ask.  (I dare ya, I double dare ya.)

 

(footnotes)

 

* early in my days here in the virtual world, when everything was new and therefore risky, my fear would sometimes manifest itself in the most pedestrian of ways. “Hey, be careful clark… you’re getting kinda out there. If you don’t watch out you’re gonna get everyone mad at  you.” I am totally grateful for the thought that followed, “Well, then, I guess I’ll just need to get another set of everyone“.

** of course I know how you feel! This is the Wakefield Doctrine!

 

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Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

‘Phyllis and Una and Home’

This week’s TToT is gonna be on the photo-centric side. Josie Two-Shoes opens the doors to this bloghop and invites one and all to share the things that inspire the state/emotion/experience of gratitude that we might care to share.

(We interrupt this intro narrative to exert editorial authority and usurp an Item, for this purpose referred to as, ‘Man! Look at what wikipedia says about the editorial we!” Otherwise it will be considered Item 7)

A nosism the use of ‘we’ to refer to oneself

Main article: Royal we
A common example is the royal we (Pluralis Majestatis), which is a nosism employed by a person of high office, such as a monarch, earl, or pope.

The editorial we is a similar phenomena

The editorial we is a similar phenomenon, in which editorial columnists in newspapers and similar commentators in other media refer to themselves as wewhen giving their opinions. Here, the writer has once more cast himself or herself in the role of spokesman: either for the media institution who employs him, or more generally on behalf of the party or body of citizens who agree with the commentary.

Similar to the editorial we is the practice common in scientific literature of referring to a generic third person by we (instead of the more common one or the informal you):

  • By adding three and five, we obtain eight.
  • We are therefore led also to a definition of “time” in physics. — Albert Einstein

“We” in this sense often refers to “the reader and the author”, since the author often assumes that the reader knows certain principles or previous theorems for the sake of brevity (or, if not, the reader is prompted to look them up), for example, so that the author does not need to explicitly write out every step of a mathematical proof.

1, 2, 3:

 

4, 5, 6:

Gratitude for the others in the interworld, both as individuals and groups: You should visit Finish the Sentence Friday, they’ve got the most basic of all prompts this week. We’re in the very beginning of Open Enrollment at the Gravity Challenge… come over, sign up and lose!* It’s no secret that we talk about the nature of reality and such, a fair amount in the Doctrine. Friend of the Doctrine, Cynthia is the person to go to when you, ‘want to see it in stores’1. Stop over to Intuitive and Spiritual and tell her the Doctrine sent ya. And, finally if you gots a hankering to arrange words in new and surprising sequences, head for the Six Sentence Story, Denise and them will total blow yer mind.**

7, 8, 9:

Sorry, only 8 and 9 left (see above)

‘The Wakefield Doctrine’ spanning the globe.
Friend of the Doctrine, Alex somewhere in Greece invoking the Rite of Hat.

 

THIS SPACE AVAILABLE (If any Reader wants to participate, however are not certain, in light of this Post, they are yet comfortable contributing to such a…. literary mélange as is this here bloghop here, feel free to send in your Grat Items and we’ll be happy to post them in this space.

10: Secret Rule 1.3

 

 


*  Gravity Challenge joke. Despite what a cursory inspection might lead you to believe, the emphasis in the Challenge in not losing weight; it’s practicing the art of altering one’s reality. (No! Really, ask anyone!) We participate by sending in photos of the readout of our scales each morning (‘cept Sunday). Kristi’s Rule is the best illustration of this principle, i.e. the photo (that is a requirement) need show only that portion of the number that you would post. It’s about change, not status. Ya know?

1) To ‘see it in stores’ is an old colloquial expression for, ‘ok, I get the concept, and sure, the Wakefield Doctrine offers a fun, useful and productive perspective on the world around me, but sometimes I’d like to gain reference points that, while helping me learn to live better in the here and now, has less of the ‘raised eyebrow factor’. Talking about mindfulness and centering oneself in the here and now does not make people look at you funny. Exclaiming, “Wow! She is such a scott!” or “Man, rogers sho do keep us on our toes, emotional-combatively-speaking”, tends to inspire the look.”

** it’s a writing challenge, one prompt word, six sentences, fun.

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TToT -the Wakefield Doctrine- ‘…of tree stumps and self-improvement, instability is the key’.

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

‘A change both for the former tree and the earth that gave it meaning. One moves on, the other remains, subtly changed forever.’

Lets go for brevity

1) the Wakefield Doctrine as a tool for self-improving oneself. If for no other reason it is predicated on the notion that we, all of us, live in a reality that is personal. (Nothing weird or spacey, just personal… as in: my perspective does not create the entire world (the world in common, the world ‘out there’) it does, however, impart values, emphasis and, like the blue-and-red cardboard 3D glasses that we used to get back in the day, to see Thirteen Ghosts, (the original, not the recent version with Tony Shalhoub and the always excellent Matthew Lillard), you put them on and your see the ghosts. Of course the ghosts are there all along, the glasses allow you to see them. Perspective is a lot like cardboard 3D glasses. (cont’d Item 3).

2) Josie Two Shoes. Proprietoress of this here bloghop here. The doors are always open, the lights are on ever weekend, without fail. Thanks, J

3) So, you know how we suggest the best way to determine your own predominant worldview? What?! You don’t?! Welll You learn the descriptions of the three worldviews, the Outsider(clarks), the Predator(scotts) and the Herd Member(rogers) well enough to allow viewing the world through the perspective of each of the three. The view that is least blurry is your predominant worldview. The cool thing is, you have, with the aid of the Wakefield Doctrine, access to two additional pair of cardboard 3D glasses. Get them and you can see the world as ‘the other two’* experience. The amazing thing is that you will find you are able to cope with the worlds of the other two. Maybe not smoothly or automatically at first, but with practice? Definitely. I’ll refer you to one Lizzi Lewis and Cynthia Calhoun. They’ve experienced this. Of course, both are exceptional woman-people, so maybe they’re not the most impartial. But it’s true.

4) Una because she reminds me that today is the only real day there is.

Una surveys the surrounding woods. The broad expanse of flat, green(ish) lawn remains peaceful and un-trodden, little suspecting the presence of the balls, one blue and fiercely dense, the other large and disposed to identifying with the flat earth.
They both bide their time accepting the fact full self-actualization lies with the vigilant dog, who in turn delays her own enjoyment in deference to duty.

5) Phyllis  ya know?

6) The Six Sentence Story is a bloghop that we recommend. It’s a fun way to sharpen your wordage skills. No, seriously, not to make it sound like work or some kind of writing class or something. Well, kinda is, but the big difference is it’s a comfortable, totally supportive environment. I’m like almost always reading a Six by say, Pat or Val or Paul and sit back and think, ‘How did they manage to do that?!’ And then you try to imitate it for your own Six and ain’t nobody be in your face with ‘Copycat! Go get yer own words!’ lol Nope, not even once.

7) The Book of Secret Rules (aka the Secret Book of Rules) (inquire within) At least on Item is brevitic.

8) THIS SPACE AVAILABLE (Any new Reader or random visitor, like what you see? Want to participate? Have only one of two Grat Items? Fret no more! Send them in as a Comment and they’ll totally be placed here with full attribution.)

9) Sunday Supplement: ‘Instability and the Beast’

“The Beast begins to make his bid for freedom…”

“Employing a very risky vaulting maneuver, the Beast attains the edge of freedom…”

 

“A sleeping captor is no captor at all…”

“Embracing the power of instability, the Beast heads to the car in the enclosure. Every bit a God to the formerly earth-bound Beast, the wheeled vehicle awaits in the canvas cathedral.”

 

“To walk or to drive, that is the question. The top of the earth is both freedom and restriction to the Beast.””

10) SR 1.3

music goes here:

* example: I’m a clark. ‘the other two’ are scott and roger


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TToT -the Wakefield Doctrine

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

‘A Garden-to-be and Namesake, both wait patiently.’

This is the bloghop that invites one and all to share the sources of gratitude in their lives. Being the virtual world, (in general), and the blogosphere, (in particular), the variety of experiences found on these pages are as remarkable as this ‘world’ in which they appear.

Hosted by Josie Two Shoes, the TToT, (from it’s proper name: Ten Things of Thankful), is blogging at it’s best. Eschewing the constraints of the common and ordinary ‘gratitude blog’, the TToT is the weekly repository of posts that are: written as well-ordered and engaging lists of the week’s past days; well-ordered lists with clever unifying themes as Mimi comes up with, each week; well-ordered lists utilizing photos that demonstrate the truism that (they) are worth, ‘thousand words’ Val having totally mastered the weaving of image and idea; lists that share the love of our non-human partners on this planet and lists that are as familiar (and enjoyable) as an impromptu conversation with a friend at a local coffee shop.

The TToT is all about allowing others a glimpse into one’s world, life, reality. Sure, we all have ‘real’ world friends, a relationship that, by tenure, entitles us a greater insight into their life. But for most of us, our ‘real’ worlds are populated with people about whom we know height, weight, occupation and family demographic. Nothing wrong with that. It is not uncommon among those who become friends here in the ‘sphere, that we find (and welcome) the opportunity to offer an insight into a part of our actual lives.

So there you have it. Your own very personal library where the shelves are full of tales of people living lives; the pages are full of words that cannot be made up, they can only be lived (and, perhaps, recorded) and they are ours to enjoy and learn from and know that there are others in the world who have done some the things we have done but better and others in the world who have failed at some of the things we have excelled at and others in the world who have felt as we have.

Not a bad way to spend a few hours, non?

1) Una and her garden (see photo above)

2) Phyllis (who pretty much has a hand in all the better images on these pages)

3) Irene Waters, over at the Six Sentence Story, Irene did a Six semi-based on the music of Led Zeppelin. This is surely one of the cooler manifestations of the socio-cultural benefits of this here blogosphere. Her comment (and post) prompted me to remember the ‘day the music got loud’. Hence the week’s music vid.

4) Speaking of other bloghops, you owe it to yourself to stop by the Six Sentence Story and try yer hand at short, short, really, quite short-story writing. (The Six Sentence Story ‘hop has a rather impressive pedigree.. Preceeding the current host, Denise, Zoe managed the weekly prompting of story writing. In the Department of Tiny Planets, none other than our own curatress, Josie Two Shoes cracked the word-whip prior to Z taking over. There are muy (or would that be muchacho?) talented writers participating each every week; Pat being in the forefront of writer-I-watch. (The ‘watch’ implies the part of the reading that ends with, ‘…how the heck did she do that?!!’ For me, the Six Sentence Story is as much about learning as about reading. Pat has that gift for creating a small, simple world with engaging characters doing interesting things. In six sentences. Can I get a ‘damn!’)

5) And a grat item on bloghops is not complete without mention of the FTSF crew. (Picture Pirates of the Caribbean ‘cept with a mostly female cast…. I’ll leave you to decide who plays Jack Sparrow: Kristi or Kenya or Tamara or Madra or Janine or Dana)

6) Kerry… not just ’cause she wields a mean keyboard over at ‘the ‘kerchief’... but because she does stuff in the ‘real’ world and has had things published and been on the radio and does a podcast… in the kid-parlence from a lifetime ago, Kerry’s a total three letter blogger.*

7) Speaking of powers of example. Kristi who does a blog that somehow manages to combine many of the cited attributes, including my favorite, ‘photos-through-windshields- of-moving-cars’. (In the interest of protecting reputations, Kristi hardly ever steers with her knee while rummaging through settings on the camera as a potential photo approaches at 70 mph…like some blogwriters I know ) And, in all seriousness, she is my role model in the photo description thing.

8) THIS SPACE AVAILABLE (there are, at least statistics suggest there are, at least 3.45 Readers who, while not regular participants in the TToT, nevertheless harbor a medium strong desire to “...join in that blog someday. But… alas, I have not Ten Items.”

Well… your wait is over. Send us your Grat Item in a Comment and I’ll totally place it here. capische?

9) Technology and the relationships it makes possible (sure, a little redundant, but only in a repetitious way)… Friend of the Doctrine Cynthia. A total power of example and a credit to her people. She’s been busier than usual (ayiiee!) so get yerself over to her blog Intuitive and Spiritual, you can thank us later.

10) SR 1.3  (this is the oft-employed Secret Rule 1.3, one of a number of Rules. One less frequently used SR is SR 89.3 (i) which states, in part: [t]hose who, finding that the comments on a given post have, (somehow), managed to anticipate one’s own remarkably clever bon mot, may (ref SR 3.21 ibid) reply to a comment in (another’s) post and not, by doing so, be prosecuted for ‘thread-jacking’ and may, in fact (SR 2.1;3) be applauded for ‘cranking up the volume on this thing'” op.cit Secret Book of Rules (aka Book of Secret Rules) Cambridge ed. 2014)

 

 

* ‘three-letter’ a reference found in high school culture (at least that culture as I experienced it) referring to those members of multiple winning sports teams… not just a letter sweater… but that, times three.

 


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No, not an effort to avoid the ‘real’ writing of the day! Just something Cynthia (or maybe it was Denise... possibly Pat) said in a comment yesterday.

Just that certain FOTD* have, in recent ‘conversations, mentioned how music, although subject to ‘the Everything Rule’**, nevertheless evidences a certain simpatico among members of the same personality types.***

So, here are two tunes for two very different moods likely to be encountered by the clarks today as we encounter, deal with and do what we gotta do with that world ‘out there’.

And, since all work and no play makes any lifeform dull, (yes, even clarks) we have this to play at whichever end of the day you choose.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iDpYBT0XyvA

 

 

*Friends of The Doctrine

** ‘the Everything Rule’ states: ‘everyone does everything, at one time or another’. What it means is: while each of the three worldviews have an inherent affinity for certain types of music, styles in fashion, professions and trades, cuisines and vacation milieu, no worldview has exclusive domain on anything.

Sure, scotts do well as police officers and surgeons and rogers produce examples of the epitome in the field of CPA, fashion co-ordinator and high school teachers and clarks…well, whatever it was that had the shortest line in gym full of registration tables….lol  What we’re saying is that a scott could be (and surely there are some) a CPA and a clark could be a frontman in a band and rogers could be rodeo stars. The interesting thing here is how, if we look closely, each of the three worldviews manifest their ‘thing’ in a manner reflective of their respective worldviews.

A scott as a policeman. Easy. They’re really good at being cops. The job (for them) entails being out among the general public, encouraged to drive fast, chase and capture people and, wherever possible make a lot of noise doing it. But a clark can be a cop as can a roger. Where do you think the Commissioner of police comes from? Or the cops turned successful authors?  lol

*** Our three personality types:

  1. clarks (the Outsider) poor posture, incredibly witty (when they can be heard),
  2. scotts (the Predator) active and move quickly, plan and reflect as little as possible
  3. rogers (the Herd Member) precise and exact, living by the rules, happy to share them

 

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