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‘Monday’s Child is Fair of Face’ -the Wakefield Doctrine- (yeah, I could’ve gone with ‘Prodigal Daughter’ …call me sentimental)

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Busy week ahead, need to keep the rhythm strong, so this, a Monday morning Post-ette.

I’m determined to have my writing schedule keep pace with self-imposed demands, a task I gladly accept. There is a Six Sentence Story to get ready for* and work on Chapter 1 of Blogdominion and, hopefully, a Finish the Sentence Friday. In addition to that, I’m committing to writing at least one traditional Wakefield Doctrine Post each week. I’d like to pull in Lizzi, now back from her walkabout in the New World, to start us off. (From a Comment on the TToT this weekend), our Ms. Rogers say,

“Yes. I think we take from each other on that – we’ve both been there, both done that, both will do the same again in future – and always mindfully (taking notes) in the knowledge that whilst we’re always alone, we also aren’t, and can (if nothing else) be USEFUL in these times when otherwise it might seem more prudent to curl into a ball and cry.”

As is her way, L keyed on one of my favorite topics… concepts… clark-insights, whatever the word is, identification. Learning to identify, (with other clarks), represents the single most beneficial thing to come out of the Doctrine, at least in terms of benefitting those Readers with the personal reality of the Outsider (aka clarks). That’s not to say that our scottian and rogerian friends do not, or cannot, benefit by this simple (yet very difficult) choice of perception. Disclaimer: the concept of ‘identification with others’ is very not original with the Doctrine. One might even say that it, identification, is an inherent relationship among (and between) people since time immemorial. It has always existed and it has always offered an opportunity to get beyond the confines of ‘me’. That being said, for those of us here, learning about the (additional) perspective on life that is the Wakefield Doctrine, who are clarks are focused on ‘how to step in from the Outside’**. Identifying with other clarks affords us one more avenue to become a real person.

The Comment thread on yesterday’s TToT that Lizzi initiated, will say it better than I can, here on a pre-dawn Monday morning.

Other stuff.  Blogdominion. (Warning! what follows is a characteristic clarklike lament that treats self-improvement like it was a setback. We are so crazy when it comes to stuff like that!  Man! you’d think we want to stay the same and never improve and are repelling the honest-no-big-deal compliments like… well, like clarks!  jeez!)
Anyway. I’m really enjoying this learning to write thing! Which makes total Doctrine sense and serves both as an illustration of the principles of the Wakefield Doctrine and as an ‘Close’ to this Post!

clarks enjoy learning things, (see footnote** below and the Page on clarks), and when something engages our interest, we enjoy acquiring new skills. This enthusiasm naturally invites the good wishes of the people around us (the scotts and rogers). We (clarks) shy away from the compliments because a) it makes us the center of attention and, therefore, subject to scrutiny, which may extend beyond the immediate subject and 2) we are afraid to change, or better to say, we are afraid that self-improvement makes us even more different from those around us and we risk losing what we think we have or… worse, we lose the special feature of being Outsiders and run the risk of turning into just another person.

ok, that’ll be quite enough for today. Gotta save some subjective angst for zoe’s Stories and the Serial!

 

*the careful preparation for which consists of:

  • Monday: don’t look
  • Tuesday: no! I mean it! do not look
  • Wednesday: ok…look, now don’t think about it until later*
  • (Wednesday)* unless you have an idea for a story**
  • (Wednesday later)** yeah, right, like that’s gonna happen… why do I do this to myself!?!***
  • Wednesday very late)*** well, cause there’s a bunch of skilled bloggers and, no matter what, if you participate, your own skills will improve and besides they liked that one last week… or the week before, hey! ‘last week or the week before’ that sounds interesting
  • Thursday: what was I thinking?!?! ‘last week or the week before’  what does that even mean?!?!  damn! time to write something anything and hit
  • Thursday (at some point): Publish

** the nature of the personal reality (aka ‘worldview’) of clarks is that of the Outsider. A more complete description of this worldview can be found on the Page on clarks…. a less complete description would be: clarks are the people who know that that they are different and this difference sets them apart (not above or over others…apart from) all the people in: their families (growing up), their friends at school (learning about the world) and at work and in marriage and while engaged in living. clarks perceive the world as being ‘out there’… a separate place. clarks believe that they are different because of something within them, most likely, something they didn’t learn that everyone else clearly has learned and so, clarks search the world of the rational, the intellectual, the ‘knowing about’, all in the increasingly desperate drive to learn what everyone seems to already know. Of course, as everyone else knows, it’s not in the mind, it’s in the heart. Overlooking this does not deprive the clarks of the capacity to be like everyone else, overlooking this does make them clearly different. And that’s why clarks mumble a lot and laugh at odd things and will do anything for a friend (while avoiding accepting credit), because we are searching for what, once we learn it, will make us real people.

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TToT -the Wakefield Doctrine- ‘we have lists and stories and videos and ever so many interesting things this week, you simply must join us!’

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This Week, we got it all!  a Video Grat Item, a link and a request to go and read the latest project to come out of Doctrine Central….and tree houses and turning leaves, planting grass and ignoring the early morning dark. Sure, your typical pre-TToT week of activity!  Oh, and our illustrious Leaderini is back (maybe not re-acclimated but at least people are no longer speaking with accents wherever she goes).

Hey Facebook-TToT-page-person!! You know most of the participants here every weekend are, like, skilled and totally eloquent in their TToT Posts! If you have a problem with that… you can come and hang out with us at the Doctrine!

1)You the Reader…. sine qua non, binyons, sine qua non.

2)  hey!! Speaking of Readers and Reading!  I have a favor to ask. I’m embarked on the ordeal* of writing a Serial (no!  nothing to do with Frosted Flakes, Dyanne!…. although, now that I think of it… back in the day, I suspect you might have preferred Lucky Charms (they were, after all, magically delicious)…  where was I?? I’m asking you to go and read the first entry in the Online Serial, ‘Blogdominion’   there is a place to vote and follow and all the usual things and… thank you.   (damn! that was kinda weak, is there a roger in the house!?!  lol)

3)lawn work… trying to replant grass in the front yard. They say that you use 23 muscles to walk, 57 muscles to run up the stairs at the office, (and not  actually gasp and sound like you’re totally out of breath when you get to the top of the stairs where the 27 year old new agent is politely waiting for you to finish your climb, with what you want to believe is a an expression of respect and admiration on her face, but is, in fact, a reflection of the internal debate whether she should be dialing 911, but you know that you need to smile and say something clever), but …but! it takes 123 muscles to rake the front yard… I believe them.

4)speaking of front yards, we went for our Friday Walk yesterday…. went to Farmer Brown’s (“…them’s some mighty smelly cows, by Jesus!“) grateful for the car and the camera… video in Item 5

5) video of Friday October 9 2015  ‘Walk by Farmer Brown’s Cow Place’

6) Phyllis who is, at the moment, wrestling with the washing machine…. being a roger, she has a pretty fair chance of getting the thing to work again, unfortunately, being a roger, the solution might involve sealing off the laundry room and allowing the entire space to perform the rinse cycle, there is no underestimating the power of duct tape!

7) total gratitude for the Wakefield Doctrine… it is simply amazing! That I’m writing this? …Wakefield Doctrine. That I apparently get a kick out of trying to figure out how to write better …the Wakefield Doctrine! That I have friends in the blogosphere? …that’s right! the Wakefield Doctrine.

8) the Book of Secret Rules (aka the Secret Book of Rules)… one of the coolest things about this here bloghop here  (new readers?  questions on the BoSR/SBoR?  zoe is the life form!  she has a link to a great explanation!

9) oh yeah!  all my homies at the Gravity Challenge and at Six Sentence Story  hey!

10) Welcome back Lizzi!

 

*not as bad a thing as the word might imply… Lizzi knows (hell, all clarks intuitively recognize the value of framing (an) effort as an ordeal…. ask them)

 

 

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Sixth Sentence Story -the Wakefield Doctrine- ‘a man comes on and tells me, how white my shirts can be…’

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Here we are …again, Thursday with our Six Sentence Stories bloghop, brought to you by zoe/ivy. The premise is simple, (the execution perhaps not so much). Tell us a story in six sentences.  not 78, not 3… Six. So why the long (and, to be honest) kind of obvious introduction? I  spend time writing (and re-writing) this intro section, in the desperate hopes that something will coalesce in that part of my mind that ideas rise to the surface of awareness.

 

“…now is the time, a new day {chhkk}…now is the time, a new day {chhkk}…now is the time, a new day{chhkk}…”

Awareness returned without notice or, for that matter, any sense of transition whatsoever, the early dawn light was simply a presence in the room, like the teacher in Study Hall or the Librarian at her desk, unavoidable, implacable and possessed of Power to define and determine the quality of his life, at least for the present moment.

Through eyes that he was pretty certain were open, he could see light, leaking in around the dark window drapes, like water rising in the bottom of a boat, the essence of pending  but-undefined-trouble-ahead, immune to all thought or explanation or rationalization, simply ‘the future is coming and you probably are not going to be happy’.

With the light came thought, with thought, awareness… an awareness in the manner that he thought animals might experience awareness, distilled to the simplest of messages, ‘thirsty’ ‘hungry’ ‘tired’ ‘excited’ ‘danger’, not, all in all, a bad way to live

Sneaking in with the morning light was the sense, the idea, the thought, that if he waited, even just a little, something would happen to indicate that the world was going to take at least partial responsibility and therefore provide him a compelling reason to leave the percale and wool cave that he was hiding in, for the moment, for better or worse, all he had was the silently whispering light and the record on the turntable, endlessly repeating,

“…now is the time, a new day {chhkk}…now is the time, a new day {chhkk}…now is the time, a new day{chhkk}…”

 

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-the Wakefield Doctrine- (‘it’s time to kick some devil butt*’)

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*Fred Hammond’s introduction to ‘Let the Praise Begin’, the next to the last track on the reprint section of this Post.

If you enjoy (modern) Gospel music, you gots to listen to Fred! Not that I go to church, but if my church had this kind of music, I might still be there… no, wait. I was brought up catholic and there is no way in the multiverse that I could imagine this kind of un-restrained, joyous music coming out of the building (to be fair, when I grew up they were still speaking Latin. I understand there’s been some changes since that time.)

hey I just listened to the first cut, which I also really enjoy, so maybe my problem with the church music of my childhood wasn’t the music, but my perception of it! I mean, I enjoy listening to ‘Caritas abundat in omnia’ (the first track in the reprint). But then, that is what the Wakefield Doctrine is all about, isn’t it? Perspective.

One might say that perspective is the ‘personal’ in ‘personal reality’. So, if you want to better understand the other person, or persons in your lives, then (we all)  would benefit by allowing for these other (personal) realities, and the way to do that is acquire a different perspective. This is what we mean when we say that the most useful thing inherent in the principles of the Wakefield Doctrine is that it helps us to, ‘appreciate how the other person is relating themselves to the world around them’. Now, the Wakefield Doctrine, as a personality theory, proposes that there are three characteristic ways that people relate themselves to the world around them, as:

  1. an Outsider (clarks): bad posture, poor enunciation, painfully shy, insanely creative
  2. a Predator (scotts): great friends, terrifying enemies, psychotically protective mothers and sure-I’ll-rob-this-gas-station,-if-that’s-what-you-really-want girlfriends/boyfriends
  3. Herd Member (rogers): meticulous and precise, patient to a fault and capable of reading (and believing) every word of the instruction manual (and…and!! waiting until it’s completely read before assembling!!!)

…. the re-print? oh, that!

Jen Kehl used to do this music blog hop  Twisted MixTape back in 2013… it was a fun way to do Tuesday. Jen has a blog consultation service (and assorted other useful things) go see her, tell her the Doctrine sent ya!

 

(from Oct0ber 22, 2013)

Well, this surely will be an interesting week, MizTape-wise. Our Host(s) Jen Kehl and Kristi McNichol have advised us to ‘think spiritual’ for this week’s MixTape. Given that I was taught from a time before I can remember that, in polite company, ‘one simply never discusses politics and religion’, I am in a bit of a quandary. I really enjoy our tunesome Tuesdays and yet, that pesky up-bringing thing. Well, as we say at the Wakefield Doctrine, if it walks like a nun and quacks like a minister, then it must be… (sorry, last minute deadline pressure got the better of me. The Wakefield Doctrine does have something to say about religion, seeing as you have already brought up the topic. When it comes to matters of the soul and deities and such, then: clarks are spiritual, rogers are religious and scotts… they pretty much decide on which sect has the hottest clergy and/or offer the most opportunity to get some…enlightenment.)

Alright! That takes cares of the mandatory, ‘hey-we’re-blog writers-and-music-fans-write-something-profound-insightful-or-failing-that-weirder-than anything’ Done…Done….(and)…Done!

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Caritas abundat in omnia – Hildegard von Bingen

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Elected – Alice Cooper

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fs6AExtcNEQ

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Old Time Mix – Fred Hammond

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Let the Praise Begin – Fred Hammond

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Oh What a Night – Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons

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TToT -the Wakefield Doctrine- Sauteday Octobre three 2015

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I tried to take a photo of the backyard/woods today, to serve as illustration of how, ‘not still Summer’, it is today. But although my camera tried to capture the grey overcast sky and the dying umber tones of the hurry-to-hibernate plant life visible out the window, it just gave up, as if to say, “No clark, lets not bother. everyone knows what’s coming, why can’t we just accept it and find the positive aspects to the most inevitable of all inevitabilities, the passage of time, the turning of the calendar? or, even better!! how ’bout we find me some naked women to create photos of…I promise not to send them to the Facebook this time!!

Fortunately for me, (and for everyone else, I suspect), today is Saturday and that means it’s time for a TToT post!  The blog-that-Lizzi-built is predicated on the notion that, if we focus on the week past enough to find 10 Items that inspire, generate or spontaneously cause us to feel grateful, our lives will be, (maybe a little/maybe a lot), enhanced for this effort. (Very) fortunately for me, the standards and requirements for successful participation in the Ten Things of Thankful bloghop are… lets, just say, flexible.  Most Posts are concise, coherent, orderly and clearly the work of organized and talented writers, eminently readable and make me and my co-hostinae proud to say, “excuse me? do you enjoy writing Posts? would you care to join us at the TToT? we would be ever so delighted to have your voice join our chorus of appreciation of the good things in life.”  And …we have the Wakefield Doctrine (and a certain few others, like the children who gravitate to the seats in the back of the class…. in 3rd grade!).  not to mention any names, but there are some blogs  with names that, like rhymes with ‘ meals with a side of lox‘ and ‘un-charted‘  and ‘the non-reality grape arbor‘   (now those guys write some weird-assed posts)

What I’m trying to say is, ‘if you’re new to the TToT and you want to join us but are concerned with doing it right… then you have nothing to fear’. That very attitude is all you need, provided you actually hit ‘Publish’, of course. There are lots of ways to come up with a list and lots of tools to help and the bottom line is, the act of participating in a gratitude bloghop is the whole point. So come on down!  If you have any questions about, oh I don’t know, say the Book of Secret Rules (aka the Secret Book of Rules)… give zoe/ivy a ring. anything else you’re not sure of, do what I do… just make it up as you go along.

1) The co-hostinae of this here bloghop here. I could name them by name… ok, I will  Christine and Michelle, Dyanne and Kristi, zoe and Lisa, Sarah and… Lizzi (who might be 19 miles high as I write this). They are very good at what they do.

2)  Speaking of ‘very good at what they do’, gotta give a shootout to Una. We went for our walk yesterday and it was raining cats and ducks… and windy too. But, she stuck her head out the window as we drove along… ’cause that’s what she does when we go for a walk on Friday evening! (the shaking-shaking-off-the-water-from-the-fur as experienced in a smallish German luxury car warranted it’s own entry… but I didn’t mind. She was enjoying herself and that is the point.)

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3)  Phyllis gets a mention for her ability (more of a talent) (though, as I think about it, it is an element in the personal reality of her people (rogers)). She illustrates the complexities of life in the Herd better than anyone I know… on a given weekend, once she has established a list of things that she needs to do, she will accomplish them. No! seriously… yeah, we all do that. Except clarks will have a list and when it (the list) gets sidetracked, we’ll immediately re-create a list (yeah, a slight different list). At the end of the weekend… god knows what we clarks will have accomplished. As to scotts and lists…. no be serious!  lol   Now, Phyllis, when her list is drawn up, she will do those things! Sure, it’s raining… you say ‘Go to the Beach’ is on the list?  no problem! (you were going to get wet anyway)… the lawn needs to be mowed and it’s, like 7:30 pm (because, even for rogers things sometimes run behind)…. not a problem! the driveway has a light and the backyard has floodlights… the grass doesn’t care what time it gets cut! So hats off to Phyllis

4)  work…. sure. Actually I am grateful that I am able to do the work I do and the rewards that are attendant to being in this field.

5)  The Graviteers over at the Gravity Challenge   I really enjoy the daily connection and photos and such!

6)  I had a work-in-the-woods adventure this week that caused me to stop what I was doing and laugh at myself (and the situation)… it’s more appropriate in the Number 9 Item position…

7)  Am I ever grateful for the flexibility in what is permissible for inclusion as individual Grat Items!!  otherwise, there’s no way I would get this far

8)  the Wakefield Doctrine,  ever the fun tool for understanding the behavior of the people in our lives, the principles (essentially: determine how you relate yourself to the world around you… then correctly infer how the people you encounter are relating themselves to the world around them (aka their predominant worldviews, clark or scott or roger) and then see the world as the other person is experiencing it! that’s all it takes to have a better life!) anyway, as I was saying, of late, I’ve been exploring some metaphors for the difference in age, i.e. how are ‘the young’ different from ‘the old’  and I’m really excited by what seems to be a difference in the rhythm of (those two) worlds! The fact of this difference has established that, when I see other people, there is a sense of…maybe… possibly….becoming aware of my own rhythm (of my relationship to the world around me)…enough to step out of my own typical behavior!  very cool… will keep you up to date as it develops.

9)  …so, we have a pond on our property, decent sized… not boating-sized body of water, but big enough to have mature trees lining it’s irregular shoreline. The pond has a very muddy bottom, (years of leaves from the trees settling on the bottom and rotting), so, even at this time of year when the water level drops significantly, you’re not inclined to think, ‘hey! I’ll just walk out the 10 or 12 feet to that fallen limb and cut it up and drag it to shore‘. The project was to clear the deadfall in two places where some good-sized limbs had fallen off of over-hanging trees, into the water. They were, maybe, 12/15 feet long and more of a small-trunk-sized in diameter. The plan I came up with was pleasing in its simplicity. We have a 12×12 canvas tarp that we were throwing away, so I thought, ‘if I spread this tarp over a wide enough an area leading up to the limb, I shouldn’t sink into the mud too much!’ So I did and it worked! I took some rope, because the limbs needed to be dragged out of the water. My plan was to tie off one part of the limb, cut it with my chainsaw  and, with the rope, drag the ….smaller section to the shore! It worked fine… until I got to the biggest limb.
Canvas up to limb? √!   Tie rope around the section of limb that is to be pulled onto shore? √ Crank-up chainsaw and cut √?   …watch the limb fall into the water because I cut on the wrong side of the tie-off?  √√√  lol
This is where I started to laugh, yet I felt good that I got as much done as I had… the rope stayed firmly attached to the main trunk, of course, luckily I could just reach the cut section and dragged on shore. (Not that you can see it, but the lead photo in today’s Post is of that limb…with the red thing in the right foreground being the chainsaw on the bridge that I built a couple of years ago).

10)  1.3 y’all 1.3!

 

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