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Video 9 from the Planet Wakefield … ‘they had a Doctrine, they would stop at nothing’

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine’s Video Friday Series of videos that are played on Fridays.

This will be brief as we have a very special Video this Week! It’s special because we have a  ‘full house’ of Progenitors and DownSprings and FOTDs and they are all talking…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8–eVepZi_k

 

Fun huh?  This is what we do on the Wakefield Doctrine Saturday Night Drive… as you can see it is not all “learn the three personality types” or ” hey! what if I know I am competing with a roger for the attention of a girl and I am a clark…does the Wakefield Doctrine offer anything useful?”  or even  “so I can see that I probably am a roger, but a lot of people say I am real creative and all, does that make me really just a clark“?

The answers to these common questions are as follows:

  • who said I had to learn??!  what the hell is this a secret moonie kibbutz or something?
  • give it up
  • of course you are not a clark simply because you are  creative, you are a clark because you are thinking about which you should be and are taking into account the opinion of another person

So Read, Write (comments) and Call.  You will be glad you did.

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the Wakefield Doctrine ( it was Saturday, it was Night and we were surrounded by Wakefield))

Wakefield Doctrine ( the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers )

Good Drive last night. In abstenita* were DS#1, Ms AKH, Molly and glenn. The primary topics of conversation centered on the Wakefield Doctrine ( no!! lol ) and what it tells us about which jobs/occupations  you will most likely find clarks or scotts or roger.  Interestingly enough,  the focus came to rest on: clarks in the foodservice industry.  Special attention was given to the question, when you look at  waitresses and waiters,  why clarklike females seem to do do better (at these jobs) than do clark males.  Very thought provoking (if you were a clark, that is!  lol). Towards the end of the 3/4 Hour Show we all participated in a Video Friday tape! This will be Episode 9 and you will be able to watch it next Friday, March 9th ( hey! just noticed the date and episode thing…how cool is that!).
All in all it was an interesting, at times challenging, but always enjoyable 45 minutes spent “…surrounded by Wakefield”.

Before I forget!!  Mark your calendars! Next week’s Saturday Night Drive will be hosted by ‘the Three Women’!  (DS#1, Ms AKH and Molly, of course) as I will be out on the road, taking the Doctrine to the hinterlands, yo. So look for a certain, enhanced communicability** in the Show next Saturday Night… no telling what these three are likely to spring on ya, but with 2 clarklike women and a scottian female you know it’s gonna  be interesting!

So since it is Sunday, we will keep the instructional portion of today’s Post brief.

The Wakefield Doctrine is a tool, a perspective that allows us to understand the behavior of the people in our lives. By allowing us to see the worldview that the other person is experiencing, how they act will make much more sense.
The Wakefield Doctrine is predicated on the idea that all of us live in one of three personal realities, the world of the outsider ( clarks ) the world of the predator ( scotts ) and the world of the herd member ( roger ). When (a person’s behavior) is considered in the context of these three possible worldviews, everything makes way, way more sense.
Taking into account that a person might be acting, (as appropriate to a person) living as a predator, then the quickness to act, the un-reasoned aggressiveness of the scott totally makes sense.
If we think, ‘my sister is a roger and her world is built upon the premise that everything is quantifiable‘, then her meddling and pushiness in my own lifestyle becomes understandable.
And when you meet some girl with one too many piercings and/or tattoos, in a bar or a club and  as you talk to her, she seems to be trying to cover up a certain ‘quickness’ in her sense of humor, well…hello clark!   (…cause what the hell would you do if you grew up the outsider in a world of people who seemed to know how to live a happy life but insisted on keeping that information a secret?)

Send in your cards. Go to Claire Peek and Nell Rose’s pages….hell, while you’re out there stop by Jasmine Tea’s FB page (which will lead you to her website…well worth the trip)…and tell her ‘the Doctrine sent ya’

 

 

 

* in distinction to a rogerian expression, scotts have a characteristic way of murderin’ the English language… much like using pliers when the right tool is a wrench ( “Hey!!  I jus gotta twist this thing…it’s gotta come off, or I’ll shout at it“)

** now, thats a rogerian expression

 

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Video Friday Episode Ate… the Wakefield Doctrine live! (well, outloud at least)

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine ( the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers ).

Due to a sudden onset of larygitis, this Friday’s Video will be presented in it’s entirety without interruptions!

So write in to us and we will tell you the number to call to join in on the Wakefield Doctrine Saturday Night Drive!

 

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A Short, Quick but Totally Helpful Study Guide …the Wakefield Doctrine + too a.m.

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine ( the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers )

You know the ease with which  some of us ‘get’ the core concept of the Wakefield Doctrine, there is an equal ease in missing the point of this thing of ours. We are fond of saying that the first people who come to this blog are among the ‘best and brightest’ that the blogosphere has to offer. They see the incredible insights that this Doctrine affords them, the ridiculously effective tools that allow you to understand why people behave the way that they do…not to mention the fun we (the Progenitors and DownSprings and FOTDs have, what with hats and Drives and videos and all).  And yet, sometimes people struggle with the (underlying) principles of the Doctrine which in turn makes it more difficult for them to acquire the full understanding of this thing, limiting their ability to contribute to the ongoing process.
When this happens, we blame ourselves. We accept that, while all efforts are made to be simple and clear in the different Pages illustrating the different personality types and offering examples (of these types) that can be seen in the public culture,  sometimes it is not enough! So as Malcolm said, ‘We want to talk right down to earth in a language that everybody here can easily understand‘.

The Wakefield Doctrine is not a theory, the Wakefield Doctrine is a label for a perspective. This perspective is one by which we look at the behavior of another person and make the assumption that (their) behavior makes perfect sense and is entirely appropriate in some reality.

The Wakefield Doctrine suggests that all people live their lives not only in the ‘common reality’ that we all share, but in an individual reality that is the context in which they act and react, feel and make assumptions to base their behavior.

The Wakefield Doctrine maintains that there are three individual realities (or ‘worldviews’) that have characteristics that can be associated with the three personality types: the worldview of ‘the outsider’, the worldview of ‘the predator’ and the worldview of ‘the herd member’.

The Wakefield Doctrine tells us that ‘personality’ is not a collection of traits, a list of typical behaviors or even a self-reported series of likes and dislikes all charted out on a multi-axis diagram, rather personality is simply the  repeated  reactions and strategies that all people develop in order to get through life as best they can.

The Wakefield Doctrine takes the critical step of saying, ‘hey, if we dropped you at a very early childhood age into the world of the clark, you would grow up a clark‘,
The Wakefield Doctrine takes the bold step of saying, ‘take a child of less than 4 years of age and drop them into the predator/prey worldview of a scott to grow up in and I will tell which person at a PGA championship will yell, “get in the hole!!!” ‘
The Wakefield Doctrine says, ‘what other explanation accounts for grown men wearing authentic period-fabric Army uniforms of the Civil War era and spending entire weekends practicing formations!!!??!”

The Wakefield Doctrine says to all of us the following:

  • all of us are predominately one of the three types and yet we retain the capability to act as the other two
  • the trick to using the Doctrine is simple, don’t try to make sense of what people are doing until you infer the worldview that they are doing it in
  • if you are not sure if a person is a clark, scott or roger, eliminate the most obvious (i.e. the girl with the sequins on her face and the mini skirt over the jeans? probably safe to scratch off  ‘scott’
  • practice on yourself, you can’t get this thing wrong! If you want to tell everyone that you are a scott, everyone will be polite and nod and say sure as you put on your beret and get your pipe and slippers and sit down to read ‘Genealogy Quarterly’
  • it is the world that you are living in, not the things that you do that make you a clark or a scott or a roger
  • finally,  ‘the Doctrine is for you, not for them
Alright. You have your assignments! Someone send that guy with the megaphone and the portable strobe light in… me and scott need to have some private time with that ole boy.
You are to be congratulated for your attention, as a reward a repeat video clip…. (er  Molly?…AP?  you know how when you watched ‘This is Spinal Tap’ well the thing is, not so much a parody. lol  hey it was the 70s)

 

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