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Wednesday -the Wakefield Doctrine-

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

The vast majority of posts written and published in what is sometimes referred to as ‘the blogosphere’ are the result of considerable thought and reflection, research and fact-checking; not to mention the final hours of edit and polish. Often overlooked is the very first step in the writing of a blogpost, if for no other reason than creativity, the true gift of the gods, is a fickle lover. (Like that classmate in your sophomore year you obsessed over, who your contemporaries knew was out of your league and your friends withheld judgement, (either because they could not stand to see the look on your face confronting a certain socio-bio-evolutionary fact or, like the person who decides not to get into the jam-packed car to ‘see-how-fast-we-can-get-back-to-the-dorm, just didn’t want to be on the inevitable witness list), creativity is always thought worth any price until it has granted your wish.)

Then there are the everyday posts. They rise, like a Charles Schultz myth-in-waiting, staking their attractiveness, (to Readers), on the everydayness of the subject matter. Who doesn’t want to hear a theory explained, illustrated or otherwise ‘played-in-a-different-key’?

(A most excellent, and way-archaic expression appropriate at this point is ‘stem-winding’.1)

… where was I?

Big day today. Live rehearsal of work project. A ‘proof of concept’ if you will, of the efficacy of the Wakefield Doctrine as a tool for self-improving oneself.

Abbreviated version: I’m a clark with a strong secondary scottian aspect. In my predominant worldview, (that of ‘the Outsider’), scrutiny is the greatest threat, the thing to avoid. You surely have clarks in your life, (if you’re not one your-ownself); they’re the ones who run whenever a tape recorder, still camera or, worst of all, a video camera appears.

Here’s the tricky distinction; (New Readers? Not to worry, this will make sense eventually, don’t hesitate to ask questions in the form of a comment.) My personal reality makes being recorded, (audio, still, whatever), something to be avoided. It’s reasonable, too! If you didn’t know how to swim, how enjoyable do you think it would be to accept your scottian friend’s invitation to join him/her in a canoe for a paddle around Bottomless Lake?

Damn straight! No sense at all.

However, if your secondary aspect is scottian, then the threat to your life, (from the boating), sometimes goes lower-case. Not so much, ‘No big deal’, but, more, ‘Ya know, that might be interesting.’ And, depending on the-width-of-the-gap-between-buildings or the speed-required-to-beat-the-train-to-the-crossing, if you trust the implied competency of this small voice (your secondary aspect), you just might make it.

Today is kinda like that.

(And this post, for those who remember the early days of this blog, represents an attempt to get my ‘voice’ back to the less maturely-thought-through approach to relating myself to the world around me and more into the speeding car of the smart-aleck scottian influence.)

Ha! Made ya read this far.

Music? a course.

 

 

 

https://youtu.be/-9fIbhyACU8

1) hokey-smoke! here I was, totally confident in my understanding of the origin of the ‘stem-winder’ expression and, as good judgement and one-too-many entrances with fly down, teaches us, I went to our friends at the Wikipedia. The correct answer is yes, but!

here: stem winder

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Friday -the Wakefield Doctrine-

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

Lets end the (work)week with a brief discussion of:

    • secondary aspects: How do I know if I have one and what good does it do?
    • are scotts really that fearless or is everyone just afraid to mention it*
    • how to determine the predominant worldview of a person you’ve just met
        • note their choice of pronouns
        • look at their eyes
        • discard the personality type that causes a ‘No way!’ response so you have only two to decide between
        • ask them (not recommended for anyone not advanced in the study of said Doctrine, as the character of their response will tell you more about yourself than about which worldview they’re acting from

 

 

As you slide towards the weekend, remember this:

The Wakefield Doctrine is not ‘the Answer’.

It is a combination crib sheet and Cliff Notes. Written on your wrist, these answers-the-the-questions-of-life / hints-to-the-plot-twist-in-the-next-chapter / and genuine ‘slow-clap’ that you are permitted to hear and enjoy on the condition your don’t tell anyone else, it extends up your arm, across your shoulders, jogs up to your head and from there, downwards, with a brief stop at your heart.

Use this secret wisely, binyons

 

* kinda/mostly and, before you say anything, count the steps to the door.

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Monday -the Wakefield Doctrine-

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

So now that our Readers (both New and ‘since time forgot’) have had the origin tale refreshed, what are we to take away from this little, thirty-minutes-or-less interaction?

The question: which is more significant? My emotional response to the implications of what I observed or the elevation of the concept of ‘personal reality’ in my own worldview?

Well, that should wake a body right up on a November morning!

No, not really.

I take that back. Just looked up the definition of ‘epiphany’. Here, courtesy of dictionary.com:

“…a sudden, intuitive perception of or insight into the reality or essential meaning of something, usually initiated by some simple, homely, or commonplace occurrence or experience”

That works.

Enough of the clarklike view of the world. What about you folks with a significant secondary clarklike aspect?

scotts? You’ve got one clarklike friend (though you know of other scotts at work or school or otherwise in your daily world, but, well, you know, the savannah is only so large.)

rogers? Everyone you see is a Member of your Herd, mostly other rogers, with a smattering of scotts (who, from some wisdom inherited from the pre-language era), you don’t need to chase or otherwise invite to come closer.

lol

If you are a fan, follower or Friend of the Doctrine but your predominant worldview is scottian or rogerian, there is still plenty in these pages that will be an asset to you as you go about your day today.

For our scottian friends: to employ the tools available here, you have one more edge on the competition in the never-ending eat-or-be-eaten contest that is the here and now for you folks. Think of the Doctrine as an enhancement of your already impressively sensitive nose for the emotional tenor of the Herd or, if you’re in the mood for something different, your vision will be further enhanced to spot the clarks, hiding in what remains of social underbrush after the Herd has wandered through. Nothin but net!

rogers will see the additional perspective afforded by understanding the principles of the Wakefield Doctrine as the most fundamental of benefits: enhancement of the Herd. Although the Herd can be unlimited, the opportunity to see members that might be moving inwards towards the centre (that you are currently holding), the better to test and celebrate the loyalty of people who are otherwise half-invisible.

Trust this will add a little something-something to your Monday.

Lets listen to some Mississippi John Hurt to get us out the house.

 

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TToT -the Wakefield Doctrine-

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

This is the Ten Things of Thankful (TToT) bloghop.

Created by Lizzi in the Year 3 AD* and has continued to this day. It is, arguably, the longest continuously published gratitude bloghop in the history of the virtual world. (Even if thats not quite accurate, it is the one blog in which we are listed as a co-host.)

 

 

 

 

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The Creatress Hostinae: 1852 to 2015**
** somewhere between the start and when Josie stepped up

 

Despite being neither a loyal subject of the British Empire or OBE recipient, Josie maintained, in her CV, that she resided in a place ‘where the deer and the antelope play’

 

 

 

 

 

Once the time came for a third host, Kristi, stepped up with an unhesitating grace and enthusiasm that characterized her tenure, which can sometimes be mistaken for herding cats. All concerned are grateful.

 

 

The announcement of Dyanne becoming the newest hostinae here at the Ten Things of Thankful was met with a surprised but very pleased reaction from Readers. Much like the audience response when the contestant who, earlier in the week is awarded the title Ms. Congeniality, but then proceeds to be named (fill-in your choice of anachronistic beauty pageant*) ‘Miss/Mrs/Miz America/World/Multiverse’

* of course, in the metaphorical hands of anyone other than a certain personality theory, this description might be met with a chorus of “No, he di’int!” and “Did they just use a beauty pageant as an analogy for being the best person to become the next host of a gratitude blog?!” “…nobody better tell Lizzi! Sometimes you gotta wonder about them folks at that Doctrine place.”

 

We are grateful for:

 

1) Una

2) Phyllis

3) Wakefield Doctrine

4) Kristi

5) Wendy

6) Mimi, Lisa, Pat and all the hostinae that’ve served the TToT down through the years: thanks guys

7) Six Sentence Story

8) THIS SPACE AVAILABLE

9) Dyanne

10) Secret Rule 1.3

 

*AD after Doctrine (blog) c 2009

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* AD after Doctrine, Wakefield; blog 

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Friday -the Wakefield Doctrine-

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

Hey! Do you ever, like, stop yourself after a situation/interaction/encounter where you come away thinking, “Why did I let that happen? I saw that coming a mile away, what the hell is the matter with me?”

And, you get by yourself and make a decision that you would change, improve how you interact with others in the world. You feel good about it and, sure enough, the next time a similar situation occurs (which might be in a month or a year, but more likely it will be in the next thirty or ninety minutes or whenever you come out of your office/bedroom/the restroom at work-school), you act as if you had not had that very positive, and constructive conversation with yourself. You say this, they say that. You do it this way and they respond the other way. It’s all so terribly familiar. Worse… (your positive attitude and confident demeanor eroding like a sandcastle built below mean high tide), it seems like you’ll never learn.

Don’t worry. We got your back.

(Note: New Readers? You have caught on to the clarklike appeal to so much of this Wakefield Doctrine thing, right? If this is your first time, first post, go ahead and skip down to the music vid. If this is your second complete read, welcome. We were about to say, ‘Anyone who comes back here more than once alone or (more than) twice with your friends (“You gotta see this site. It’s really a fascinating blog. What do you mean, ‘What the hell is a ‘blog’?”) then you are either a clark (predominant worldview of the Outsider) or a scott or a roger with a significant secondary clarklike aspect.)

Welcome.

 

yeah… thats about it for today. It’s Friday. The one day of the week that lays off the bet (of a worthwhile life) on to the next two days. So for today, the buffet is unattended and you’re free to sit in the box seats and watch the show.

‘though we can never resist a lesson/moral/punchline, the thing that makes the Wakefield Doctrine a way-effective tool for self-improving yourself is that, because you have within the potential to experience the world as do ‘the other two’** you’re already halfway to the you you always believed you could be.

Intimidated by your boss? Spend some time reading up on scotts and rogers. Wanna ask someone for a date? Check out the section on scotts and rogers. Need to get a firm grip on why you’re still reading? check out the clark chapter (lol)

 

the thing of it is, in order to change or improve, you do not need to go and find something new/alien-to-you/possessed by people-who-never-were-like-you,-despite-what their-infomercials-say. You have within, the potential to relate yourself to the world around you as they do. Keep in mind, when you think about your scottian friend how singularly confident they are, they’ve been practicing, literally their entire lives. But…. but!! the potential is with you.

 

…oh’kay!

** ‘the other two’. You have a predominant worldview and it is to this reality that you have developed whatever style of social, functional and/or geographical interaction, aka your personality type. However, you retain the potential to experience the world as ‘the other two’. You’re a clark? ‘the other two’ are scott and roger…etc  In our opinion, the advantage of knowing that the qualities you seek are within and not something to be imported/imitated from others.

 

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