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Week’s End Update -the Wakefield Doctrine- “…come to read, stay to…. read?

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

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Before everyone goes home for the weekend, quick reminder:

  • vidchat tonight (sign up sheet below) join the people behind the words that you read everyday. put a voice behind the posts and comments, ya know
  • Chapter 8 of Blogdominion is coming out this weekend, (inside scoop: we almost to the end of Act I and all the Players will be …in play, awaiting the (traditionally high drama of  Act II)  don’t miss it! and if you haven’t started reading yet, go to this link…read the Prologue forward and please Vote and Comment, etc)
  • the Wakefield Doctrine is a way of looking at the world around us and, as a result, better understand the people in our lives
  • I was about to say that, the Wakefield Doctrine is more fun on weekends than it is on weekdays and…. well, yeah, dammit! I think I will make that statement!  Gimme some room… these bullet points are so confining….

…much better! So, about the Doctrine being more fun on Weekends than Weekdays? Sure. Because, weekends are more ‘fun’ than weekdays, unless, of course, you’re a clark. If you’re a clark, then weekends are either equal fun or equal not fun… clarks being a little peculiar in their expression/manifestation of ‘fun’  Sure, lets go to Mr Dictionary!

fun: (phun)(god-do-I-have-to-go?-I’d-rather-stay-here-and-read)

a)
Informal. of or relating to fun, especially to social fun: a fun thing to do; really a fun person; the funnest game.

2)
Informal. whimsical; flamboyant:  The fashions this year are definitely on the fun side.

Etymology
From Middle English fon, fonne ‎(“foolish, simple, silly”), probably of North Germanic origin, related to Swedish fånig ‎(“foolish”), Swedish fåne ‎(“a fool”). Compare also Norwegian fomme, fume ‎(“a fool”). More at fon, fond.

Alternative etymology connects Middle English fonne to Old Frisian fonna, fone, fomne, variant forms of Old Frisian fāmne, fēmne ‎(“young woman, virgin”), from Proto-Germanic *faimnijǭ ‎(“maiden”), from Proto-Indo-European *peymen- ‎(“girl”), *poymen- ‎(“breast milk”). If so, then cognate with Old English fǣmne ‎(“maid, virgin, damsel, bride”), West Frisian famke ‎(“girl”), Saterland Frisian fone, fon ‎(“woman, maid, servant,” also “weakling, simpleton”).

As a noun, fun is recorded from 1700, with a meaning “a cheat, trick, hoax”, from a verb fun meaning “to cheat, trick” (1680s). The meaning “diversion, amusement” dates to the 1720s. The older meaning is preserved in the phrase “to make fun of” (1737) and in usage of the adjective funny (our friends at wiktionary . com)

getting a little off-track are we? the thing about clarks and fun: we aspire to have fun. (that pretty much says it all!) scotts? they are fun  rogers get into having fun.

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Six Sics Sicks Sentence Story -the Wakefield Doctrine-

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….late. So late that it’s Thursday morning! shit! I’m looking at what I wrote yesterday, as my ‘starter words’, you know, so I wouldn’t have to stare at a blank screen? The blank screen is more engaging than my three sentences. Have I said, ‘shit!’ yet? Hey, I hadn’t realized how they’ve relaxed the rules on using that word on TV, until I saw something on ‘late night TV’* in any event, they seem ok with saying that word out loud. Which, as my friends already know, saddens me. Words have power. The source of the power (of words) varies, sometimes it’s their literal content, sometimes it’s their historical ties and, in the case of our ‘swear words’ the power is, at least in part, based in being forbidden. No longer forbidden, no longer powerful, ya know? But this is Six Sentence Story Thursday, so I better stop with my wooing** and start with my storyfying, or zoe’s gonna be banging on the door (metaphorically, of course)…. “hey!! ya been in there an hour!!  come on! the day’s out here waitin!!”

 

scraping up the dead leaves, (in a spot for his head to rest), he lies on the ground.

finding a place, near, (not too near, but within the sound of the river), she lies on the ground

he thinks, ‘the earth spins and yet gravity attracts us to the center of the earth, such a powerful force (F = G*((m sub 1*m sub 2)/r^2))’

she feels, ‘the earth is moving and the sun divides day from night, there is a cycle in nature and nature is a cycle”

standing up, he knows, ‘I can harness this power’

lying still, she knows, ‘I am part of this power’

 

 

 

*lol yeah, 10 pm… how sad is that?

**the ‘warm-up section, you know how I seem to believe that I have to…never mind, here’s my Six

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Tuesday -the Wakefield Doctrine-

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

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the Wakefield Doctrine is: a perspective1

the Wakefield Doctrine isn’t: ‘the Answer’2

the Wakefield Doctrine can help you: better understand the people in your life (and by doing that, better understand yourself)3

the Wakefield Doctrine cannot help you: change anyone, their behavior, their likes or dislikes or refusal to live the way you know is best4

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1)  it’s predicated on the notion that we, all of us, experience life and the world on a personal basis. nothing mind-blowing, earth-shattering, paradigm-shifting (well, maybe this one, if you’re lucky and you work very hard). The fact of the matter is that our world is personal, and the Doctrine, when we get to the part about three personality types, will be referring to this personal part as being our ‘worldview’

2) but it is a hell of a good Question. Besides, there are, and have always been, a ton of people all to willing to provide you with ‘the Answer’. aka ‘the World According to- (spouse/friend/boss/TV personality/politician/cop/best friend/worst enemy/ pretty much every other person you meet today’s)-Name-goes-here. The Wakefield Doctrine’s position is that, since the world is personal, how could I really know what it’s like for you?

3) so, we have three personality types to go with three worldviews that everyone lives in, except we don’t really mean personality types (it’s more a matter of the way you learn to deal with the world around you, from when you were really young and trying to cope with adults, family, teachers, friends and bullies). However, we do say that you are sitting, reading this from the perspective of a person living in one of three characteristic personal realities (i.e. worldviews):

  1. the world of the Outsider(clarks): real simple, since as long as you can remember, you’ve thought about the world as being ‘out there’, as in, separate from, you. (Since that time), you’ve been quietly and, hopefully not too noticeably, looking for the Answer, the thing that everyone else around you seem to already know about belonging… not necessarily being popular, being loved or admired, not being an outlaw… belonging (as in: not being apart from)
  2. the life of the Predator (scotts): also real simple! life! live! fight/love/eat/sleep/fight/run/sleep/hurry up!! …of course, in the context of those with the ability to read this, which, btw, in no way makes you superior to your non-human scottian brethren (which you are nodding your head in acknowledgment of right at this moment), life is a bit more involved than the simple verbs listed. sort of. you know, (without having to re-understand it), that the world and life is meant to be lived and enjoyed… hey! come back!! we’re not finished yet!
  3. the reality of the Herd Member(rogers): I would say that this worldview is not simple (in contrast to the preceding two), but that would be valid, only if you are a clark… it’s not complicated for the Herd Member, life is to be lived and practiced so that living is done as it should be, as it has the potential to be, as those before you have tried to live, the world is quantifiable (which is helpful) but, life, by doing so, charges us with finding the Right Way and, to help others to find it for themselves … a fair amount of work, but worth it

4)  the Wakefield Doctrine is for you, not them

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Friday -the Wakefield Doctrine- ‘…of reprints and vidchats, don’t forget to bring a sample of your work!’

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

who? the author I want to grow up to be: Robert Sheckley, that's who

who? the author I want to grow up to be: Robert Sheckley, that’s who

So, reprint Post or a little about tonight’s vidchat…. which one first?

Ok, I can hear the scotts off in the distance howling, “the here and now!! you can’t hunt the antelope that passed by here last week!!! stay in the here and now, clark!!! hey!!!”

Fine

Rob and Laura invite you to join us on a vidchat this evening at around 6:30 EST Leave a comment, (for me to send you an invite-link), or come to the clark scottroger page on ‘the face book’ and we’ll set ya right up. Hey, these vidchats are pretty un-predictable, but don’t be shocked if I’m all, like, ‘hey man…what’s the deal with getting into and out of a flashback scene… I mean, you can’t write: wavy wavy wavy…. ‘  plus you’ll get to meet people, in semi-person, that you’ve read out there in the ‘sphere!

That’s ’cause I’m all into the writing thing these days and I believe, quite sincerely, that if another person has an interest in something that I also share, then there’s nothing the other person can say that won’t be helpful to me in my efforts, ya know?

(as for this new interest in writing, the part I really don’t look forward to is when I have to develop my rogerian aspect, when it comes time to get up me an audience… at the moment I’m blessed with Friends of the Doctrine who go and read ‘Blogdominion‘ when each Chapter comes out. when I get to the point (say, about 10 Chapters) where I start to convince myself that I need to package the thing as a ‘real’ book (and you know I surely will!) then I’ll need to get more self-promotionalistic. Well, until then, go have a read and let me know what you think of it.)

6:30 EST yo

reprint from, like 2012!

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine ( the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

Before we get to the second installment of our series, ‘the Wakefield Doctrine and Effective Pair-Bonding Strategies in the Workplace/Personal Time Environment’ a brief word about gender.

We maintain that the Wakefield Doctrine is gender (and culture) neutral. We’re good with this because the thing that makes the Wakefield Doctrine such a unique and useful and fun perspective on behavior is its simplicity.
There seems to be a part of human nature that, when we have a desire to appreciate and/or understand something (or someone), our first impulse is to break it down into smaller and smaller elements. Trying to understand the whole by counting the parts.
We are not saying that this is necessarily a bad, inappropriate or otherwise non-productive approach. It is the only approach for those engaged in matters involving engineering and accounting and chemistry and other of the more…rogerian of endeavors.*

In the simplest of terms, the Wakefield Doctrine proposes to explain why humans behave the way that they do based on an appreciation of their personal realities. Three characteristic personal realities (‘worldviews’) that define how the individual relates themselves to the world (and life) at large. Emphasis on ‘human’. Gender happens afterwards, (from the Doctrine perspective). A scott, by virtue of living in a reality characterized as that of ‘the predator’, is aggressive, guardedly inquisitive, impulsive and quick to react. When we add gender to this perspective, we have to allow for the differences in the allowable strategies and patterns of behavior (allowable both by physiology and the culture in which the individual finds themselves).
Still a scott.
You can see this person, (male or female), and by observing their behavior, infer that they are responding within the worldview that we designate as being that of predator/prey. And so with the clarks and the rogers. It is all about inferring the reality that the individual is experiencing that makes the Wakefield Doctrine such an effective tool.

We’ll catch-up with our clark and scott and the roger as they arrive at the Calypso Club for the party, but before we do that, a little supporting information/backstory to make the remainder of the series more enjoyable and ‘educational.

The three characters are meant to illustrate the 3 predominant worldviews. We are trying to maintain a gender neutral view in order to allow the Reader to focus on seeing what they (the characters) see, to better appreciate the worldview they are experiencing in this intertwined story.
Having said that, proper names are useful, if only to allow the dialogue to flow a bit more smoothly. So, lets give these three some names!

the clark (who, to his/her credit) has gone against their natural inclination to retreat from (potentially) fear inducing situations and is pulling into the club parking lot (being sure to park in a spot that can’t possibly be blocked by another car arriving later in the evening) lets call this person: Sam
the scott …now here is the most interesting of the 3 examples, in the sense that it will be nearly impossible to avoid gender issues. The unavoidable fact is that in most cultures, direct and overtly aggressive behavior is discouraged in women, while a (male) scott can pat backs, punch arms in a jocular fashion, even stand too close in an effort to physically intimidate, female scotts must rely on other forms of expressing their totally natural, and clearly predatory-like aggressiveness. So, if you think that our scott is female, lets call her (and her male predator manifestation): Alex
the roger, Mel to his or her friends, is always there, always helpful. He/She is un-stinting in pursuit of providing whatever assistance or aid or resources or materials are necessary so that whatever you are trying to do, you will do it right…the way it is supposed to be done…exactly…and her/his standards are not so hard to meet, once you allow him and/or her to show you the proper way to do things
* we have said, not partially, in defense of the rogerian worldview, I wouldn’t want to fly cross-country on a jet designed and built by scotts or clarks!
If it were left to a scott, the plane would have at least 5 jet engines with no noise suppression whatsoever, the landing gear would be in a fixed ‘wheels down’ position, so that the pilot could ‘stop real quick and get a drink on the way’ and the window on the pilot’s side of the cockpit would open so that (the pilot) could lean out the window and scream stuff at other passing jets and
if a clark had a hand in design, there would be 8 or 10 lavatories, a bookcase for each row of seats and there would be a section in the back, where there would be couches instead of single seats, but the plane would always be late because the couches (with corduroy quilts) would slide around if the pilot tried to bank too extremely.

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Tuesday -the Wakefield Doctrine- ‘well, now that you mention it, yes, everything is potentially a metaphor for…well, for everything!’

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

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from DownSpring Lizzi:

“Balance. Something I seem to have always lacked…”

clarks are ‘the Outsiders’. So, from this alone, we are able to understand the ‘problem’ that clarks experience in the matter of having, maintaining and re-covering (their) balance. We assume that Lizzi is referring to the state of interests and efforts, relationships and life ambitions being in relative (and reasonable) proportions. (‘She does so many things! How on earth does she keep them in balance?’)

It’s not that clarks do not have the capacity to establish and maintain balance (in their lives), it’s that clarks will always seek to not maintain (their) balance. There is an old saying, ‘clarks can believe anything because clarks don’t believe in anything’  (a note: the first ‘believe‘ refers to the capacity to accept the novel, the unique, the shocking, the un-expected. the second ‘believe‘ is more akin to ‘unquestioning faith’, that quality (seen clearly and un-ambiguously in rogers and implied in scotts) that maintains that there are some things that simply are and do not permit questioning.)

So, a clark, finding a state of satisfaction (in work or school, employment or love) is inclined to ask, ‘yeah, but suppose…..’ This drive to find un-steady ground is part and parcel with living in the world of the Outsider. We’re searching for the way to become real and yet will never stop moving and questioning, because (as we understand from the Wakefield Doctrine), as long as we think we have to look, ‘out there’ in the world, we will never find the Answer.

(thanks, L)

 

Topic #2: Chapter 6  of Blogdominion is available!   (a Serial Novel hosted at Jukepop.com the site allows you to vote and comment and even review! thanks in advance)

So the Story:, there’s this computer component (Unit 17) that’s part of a facility in Provo, UT that provides hosting services to bloggers (and others),  For some reason, Unit 17 becomes self-aware! Not only that, but Unit 17 finds a ‘self-publishing’ blog (up to no good!) in the system. There’s also a nun, (Sister Margaret Ryan) who, even though she’s just halfway through her novitiate, is asked by her Mother Superior, to travel to Chicago to try to help a Parish priest with a problem they’re experiencing with the school website. Arriving in Chicago only to find that the Priest has died (in fairly mysterious circumstances) Sr, Margaret meets a Chicago Police Detective by the name of Maribeth Hartley and… well, let me just say, sparks do tend to fly whenever Det. Hartley’s involved!
Oh yeah! …there’s also two computer Engineers who are gradually figuring (but missing a big piece of the puzzle) that there’s a problem with the hosting facility in Provo, a wannabe blogger who’ll do (almost) anything to be famous and successful and a precocious 10-year-old girl, who just might be the key to saving her family!  ….and two Japanese school girls.

The good news is, the story is just getting started,  so you have time to get to know everyone, before things get real crazy!  Come on down and read and send in whatever feedback you are inclined to want to send.

Topic #3: vidchat!  this Friday! if you don’t know what that means, comment us your question! We always have fun and even though we start with a plan/topic, (this week the topic is: ‘POV and flashbacks!’), people drop in and the conversation invariably veers off into parts unknown… like I said, fun!

 

 

 

 

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