Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)
A little ‘light reading’ for this, the most lightest of Workweek Days…. Friday (courtesy of the gang down at the Wakefield Doctrine)
The question is this:
- can a person become popular without the talent/capacity/capability to effectively self-promote themselves
- (“...what does this have to do with personality types, Friday and, since we’re asking extra credit questions, what the hell is ‘the everything Rule'”)
Great question!
Allow me to answer the Second (and totally un-authorized) question first: the ‘everything Rule’ (short for: ‘everyone does everything, at one time or another’) is a reminder, to those of us who would use the Wakefield Doctrine as intended, (and not as way to figure out our kids, get our husbands to stop with the constant….or get lucky in study hall), to remember that the Doctrine is predicated on the notion that we all live in one of three worldviews. For example: I grew up (and developed my skills and strategies and interpersonal coping mechanisms) in the worldview of ‘the Outsider’, as a result, if you were to observe me today at work, you would come to the conclusion: ‘hey! he’s got one of those clark personality types that the Doctrine warned us about.’ One of the cool things about the Doctrine, is that we do not need to know about traits and tastes, habits, hobbies and interests in order to assign a personality type. Instead, we observe a person’s everyday behavior and infer how that person is ‘relating themselves to the world around them’.
The goal is to determine which of the three worldviews one is living in, (the Outsider/clark or the Predator/scott or the Herd Member/roger), once I know this, I know more about you than you know about yourself. All without a single survey question! Cool, non?
….anyway, the ‘everything Rule’ simply states that, while we all live in the same common world, i.e. the world of Nightly News with Brian Williams/the world of 19 year old Checkout girls who look at you and even answer a direct question without ever, for a second, actually seeing you/the world of surly car mechanics/the world of oppressively kind in-laws/the world of hopes that exceed any possibility of being realized yet cannot be let go of because what would your life be then/the world of the internet and websites that are flashy and full of banal, insipid advice on how to live life without the slightest hint of an original idea to distinguish it from countless other popular websites… our personal experience is…well, personal. Of course, this being the Doctrine, we take that common sense observation and say that the very reality that I live out today in is different, that although we clarks live in the same world with scotts and have the same things happen to us as do rogers, how these things ‘manifest’ is different for each of us.
manifest: (ex.) Christine and Lizzi and Kristi are riding in a car one night after going to see a really great show. Suddenly the highway behind them is filled with flashing blue light… (common enough experience, right?) . The experience that unfolds for each of our three friends is going to be different. No, really. How this encounter manifests is distinguishably different for each of them, from start to finish. The experience will manifest according to the character and nature of their respective worldviews.
damn! off on a tangent again.
popularity:
- for clarks it does not exist, it is knowable and observable, but it does not exist
- for scotts is a fact of life, it is useable and enjoyable, but, in the final analysis, of no account
- for rogers it is necessary, essential and expected…like saying to a person, ‘hey beautiful child you have there, isn’t the gravitational attraction of the Earth great today?’
Nuttin. ..is what I got….but I do so love the everything rule. …lets me excuse certain behaviors!
no! no no!!
(“Class do not listen to Miss zoe, she is only trying to create an uproar!…the Everything Rule is like….like…. multiplication tables!! (yes you in back? well, I suppose Latin declensions would apply too)…. the rule is meant to help us understand that we are doing the best that we can do, given the fact and nature of the reality we are living in….”)
lol…
Yeah…yeah…. that’s what I mean.
I think that Christine, Lizzi and I should go see a show together–that does sound like fun! As for the flashing lights, the officer just wanted to let us know that one of the tail lights on the car was burned out. No ticket issued. After hearing LIzzi speak, he also added, “Welcome to America.” :-)
My point precisely!*
* well, yes, I am kinda waiting with bated breath for any response from Christine and/or Liz…. to see what they thought/did/ when the lights came on…
Kristi, I enjoy you and your sense of humor more and more every day. :)
We will see a show together (or just hang out) someday!
I concur…. but! (back to the ‘ride home from the show scenario’), would you be the one to reach your foot over and press on the accelerator, with words to the effect, ‘try an catch us copper!’
lol
One will be annoyed that they have to pull over. One will cheer on the cops for catching the bad guys. One will suddenly feel guilty and hope they don’t get sent to jail.
Going to see a show with those two would be HI-LARIOUS :D
thank you Miz Rogers
(and I also agree)
Is the first (annoyance) Scott?
Very good!*
*for 2 reasons: a) you are correct and 2) you provide a context to talk about how the ‘everything Rule’ applies…. Christine may feel annoyed, might even try to fight, but it would not be personal with her… (ex: you have a puppy, full of energy and busy chewing up your slippers…. you go in and (for reasons to make this a better example) you take away the slipper kinda a slow.. the puppy does not appreciate it and will resist and try to take it back, but when you stand up and put the slipper on the dresser, the puppy contains playing with whatever is on hand…. so annoyed? yes taking it personal and spending time thinking about how can you ruin the fun? no. defiantly not!