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Post #1 of the Work Week -the Wakefield Doctrine- (well, because that’s where our personality is under the harshest light)

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

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the Workplace and the Wakefield Doctrine

Rule 1: Know your predominant worldview

Rule 2: Accept your predominant worldview

Rule 3: Know the predominant worldview (aka personality type) of the people around you

Rule 4: Remember! ‘the Wakefield Doctrine is for you, not them’

Rule 5: don’t forget: ‘when the going gets tough, the cause of it is coming from within’

Rule 6: Don’t get aggravated or annoyed, belligerent or beatific, avoid becoming caustic or (overly) conciliatory and, for god’s sake, don’t let yourself believe that you would feel any different, if only ‘they wouldn’t be like that‘!!!  No, I’m totally serious! The simple, unavoidable conclusion, when you take all that this here ‘personality theory’ here holds true and apply it to the life you lead, in the world around you, is that, when it comes to feelings and moods (and their illegitimate children, ‘attitude’), you are responsible for how you feel today. That’s the bad news. The good news is that, you’re responsible for how you feel! So, instead of letting your stomach twist itself into all sorts of interesting shapes, write a Comment here and let those of-a-like-worldview get aggravated for you!

The rest of this Post was to have been footnotes to the 6 Rules. They would have been fun and funny, insightful and aggravating.  However,  I’ve changed my mind and instead will instead  try to keep it simple and under 500 words, all in the interest of my getting to my own workplace on time.  The thing of it is, the personality type most likely to see that the Doctrine as applying to their world, is also the personality type (aka worldview) that will have the most difficulty ‘getting it to work’. At the same time, the ‘other two’ personality types will have less of a sense that any of this is necessary, paradoxically they will find the insights relatively easy to apply!  go figure, huh?

Well, since you put it that way… we have. and, big surprise, the personality type to see the Doctrine as useful and difficult is/are those Outsiders (clarks). But, while it takes them a little longer, the benefit will be all the greater/more significant! Just so you scotts and rogers don’t go away empty handed, or feel that this Post favors clarks, I’ll let you in on a little secret: the most difficult part of using the Wakefield Doctrine as a tool for self-improving oneself is that the key lies in recognizing others of your own worldview, observing how they act and interact and accepting the fact that their actions (and interactions) are simply their best effort to deal with the world as they are experiencing it.  (I just lied. the real  ‘most difficult part’ is to see another person of your worldview and realize that you are living and acting in the world pretty much as they are… for better or worse, ya know?)

Ok! less than 500 words!

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Well, what exactly do you want to know? Whether I am a clark or a scott or roger? If you have to ask, then you need to keep reading the Posts for two reasons: a)to get a clear enough understanding to be able to make the determination of which type I am and 2) to realize that by definition I am all three.* *which is true for you as well, all three...but mostly one

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  1. zoebyrd says:

    … also the most likely to have OCD about word count??? Just kidding… obviously the snarky bit in rule 6 is a tough application for me! But the ‘if they only wouldnt part…” If I could just get more people to buy into that concept I would either be making a lot more money preaching it as I do or I would be out of a job… nice post! thanks, me

    • clarkscottroger clarkscottroger says:

      yeah, really. (there are moments when that self-limiting/destructive/whatever part of me says shit like, ‘hey don’t preach unless you have totally done it yourself’ and while that statement is on the surface reasonable, I recognize it for what it really is and say, ‘shut the hell up.. this stuff is for doing, not thinking’

  2. lrconsiderer says:

    *stomps in*

    *breaks things*

    *stands amid wreckage, breathing very angrily*

    *stomps out, slamming door. Twice, for good measure*

    • clarkscottroger clarkscottroger says:

      er…. hi, Lizzi?

      • Denise; says:

        I’m gonna go out on that anorexic, lightening struck limb to say….perhaps Lizzi’s “comment” is acknowledging that the words written are true but is frustrated at a lack of progress.
        clarks, though having the patience of Job when it comes to others, are not as patient when it comes to seeing evidence of “self-development”. OR…, Lizzi just had a rough day and she came by to blow off some steam:) OR…..she’s ticked off at you for some reason LOL

        This is a good post. Clear, simple. Concise. Utilizing the Doctrine requires an individual to step up to the difficult task enveloped in “you are responsible for how you feel today”. It sometimes takes a tremendous amount of…something….to turn a mood around. Like a spin on the dance floor, it sometimes depends on the “partner”.