Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)
Mimi said something in a Comment yesterday that got us thinking.
[New Readers? Who among you just muttered , ‘As opposed to acting? Instead of feeling?’ Very good!]She say,
“How to have fun? What do you think I’m doing, I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t to have fun.”
>Fun Fact? Pretty much everyone who returns to this blog more than twice, if not a clark then (they) have a significant secondary clarklike aspect.<
No, it’s true!
From the very beginning we’ve described the Wakefield Doctrine as a ‘fun, productive way to look at the world we live in with the added benefit of knowing the other person better than they know themselfs‘.
The thing about the Doctrine is that it is but one more perspective on the world. And the single hardest, nay impossible for some, is what we used to call ‘flexible intelligence’. This is the capacity to accept that what we all refer to (out of either necessity or need or both) as ‘reality’ is not necessarily one thing. That there is such a thing as personal reality. Nothing weird or made-up. Just a certain part of the day we experience, say today, is created by us/for us/at us.
And, this is captured in our, if we had one, mission statement:
With the practice of the principles of the Wakefield Doctrine, we increase our ability to see the world as the other person is experiencing it.
>Fun Fact? The Wakefield Doctrine is gender neutral, age neutral, culture neutral.<
Fun. Absolutely.
And! Efficacious. My tool of choice navigating the werld.
Fun, and makes me not want to throw Brother-in-Law out on his ear.
lol