Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)
This week is over. And thank goodness for that! I’m certain that, weird as I might be, I’m not the only one who noticed that someone was playing tricks with time this week past. And not the run-of-the-mill, ‘what time did you say it was? no way! that was the fastest morning ever!’. No, nothing so…common. It was more, (to self): ‘Why is my calendar so empty today..oh, it’s not Monday, its Wednesday.’ or even, “No, we have to get this done for the weekend, so lets start right now. … three days? what are you talking about three days left, it’s Thursday afternoon!…right?”
(Helpful Tips for Newer TToT participants: Say you’re writing your list and things are going smoothly, as you recount a period of time, (could be the week that has just passed, or maybe the semester in college when it finally registered that you were living on your own), anything. Then seemingly out of nowhere you run up against a thing, event, occurrence or an interaction with that-really-annoying-middle-manager* that has you thinking, ‘Nah, no way I’m grateful for that!’ There are two frequently observed approaches to dealing with the negative and/or awful things that happen to all of us: a) find the positive in it (good) or 2) refer to it as a ‘Item of Hypogratitude’ and pull that Book of Secret Rules (aka the Secret Book of Rules) down from the shelf.(maybe not as good, but more fun)
Of course, the bottom line here at the TToT, is that there is no requirement for what makes a ‘good’ TToT post. (I might argue, ‘well, ‘good intent’ surely is a requisite.) But as our host, Kristi would surely say, ‘Joining-in is, in and of itself, both a reward and a gift (to the others).’
Hey, this has been a fun intro. I’m glad I took this route…. because, cha-ching! three Grat Items!
Lets get this party started. Grat Items for me this week:
1) Una
2) Phyllis
3) Book of Secret Rules (aka the Secret Book of Rules)
4) ‘Intro grat’ A (I’d footnote or otherwise hyperlink this up to the intro above, but then you’d never get to finish reading the post, ya know?)
5) Just a thought: I enjoyed captioning the photos but it occurred to me that I might not have provided sufficient backstory for proper enjoyment (or allowing for a reader being a relatively normal person finding themselves falling, small glass bottle in hand, labelled: ‘Read Me’.) The cause of the dying spiral corn is that darn squirrel! I was going to cite the intro again, but, you know how I mentioned that ‘there were no rules other than ‘good intent’? Well, as much as I will maintain that as a worthy attitude goal, I have certain reservations. (Most of which are grounded in my early socialization experiences, the ones that commenced when I moved into my dorm in college.) Ah ha! There! My music video for the week.
6) Current weather! Hot and humid. Love it. (For me the answer to the timeless Summer question is always, “Why no, no it is not.”)
7) the Writers Club. Only a few weeks in existence and its value has been established. (It saved me from a boring afternoon) You want to have some fun? Go to this post, at the Club and join in. If you’re not a member and would like to participate, comment here or there and I’ll totally open the door to the clubhouse. ( Or ask one of the members, Valerie or Denise, Mimi or Pat Brockett or Kerry
8) THIS SPACE AVAILABLE (There may be a reader out there thinking they would like to join in, however the mere thought of committing to Ten Items (more or less) is a fun-leaching concern. Not to worry. Send (as a comment) your Grat Item (with whatever form of attribution you’d like) and I will post it here! (no, think nothing of it… you’re the one taking the chance…. I mean, have you read this post?!?! lol)
9) Sunday Supplement
10) Secret Rule 1.3 (in part: “[t]he fact of (the) completion of a List of Ten Things of Thankful constitutes, in and of itself, an Item of Gratitude (citation: ‘Thank God! I’m done and it’s still Saturday!’ Rule BoSR/SBoR c. 2009-2018 Manchester UK, Wakefield RI
* the person in the organization with more power to make life un-necessarily difficult that anyone can explain, the one you want to grab by the shoulders and shout, “No! No one here calls that ‘the Bible’… No one. They call it the SOP, if they call it anything. Not even you call it ‘the Bible’ except when you have someone in front of you who doesn’t know any better or is too mature to shout and walk out!”
** Curly, on innumerable occasions.
s’excellent musical backdropcloth.
Enjoyed today’s post very much. Thank you :)
ur welcome
It does my heart good to read your lists.
My pleasure, M
Nice list of thankfuls. Sorry about your corn plants though. And I can do without the heat and humidity- I look forward to the Fall.
I didn’t mind when last year’s corn crop fell to the appetite of the local deer family. Squirrels, well, somehow they seem a little less sympathetic lol not sure why, but in any event they seem to have a taste for the stalk (no ears of corn yet).
I love #8, and how you always leave space for others.
thanks V
I got completely sidetracked by the photos accompanying My Old School. It is troubling to realize how many of the archival or vintage images capture actual stages of my lifetime. Really puts the emphasis on the Old in the title!
lol (and….and! those totally preserved, seemingly random and inconsequential memories that stick on our heads like box full of National Geographics… whats the deal there?
Oh, NO! Not your corn spiral! Go, Una, get that squirrel.
Thanks for the Italian word. I had to look that up, although, I had a pretty good idea what it meant.
I’m glad there are some who are able to enjoy the hot and humid weather. Maybe where one has lived most of one’s life makes it more suitable.
The club needs a comment from me, sometime soon. Thanks for the challenge.
hey, no, by all means stop in… heres a link of where we are in our latest story
Oh, I was looking forward to seeing reports about the growth of the corn spiral. Critters versus cultivation is an ongoing battle. Next year I’m hoping to plant some raspberries and other things, but I’m also fearing what will happen to them.
yeah, Neither of us are upset, everything gots ta eat. but, somehow, the squirrels…well, that just seems like they’re being deliberately …(what was the word Sylvester Cat used?)…. Obstreperous (lol)
When we grew corn, the crows “picked” the stalks before they got to squirrel height. We used to apply a hot pepper mixture; but then the crows developed a taste for Mexican corn.
Your lists are always entertaining — and have me pondering, which is a good thing/intent.
thanks
(lol on the Mexican corn…)
(god I loved that in school hot lunches… don’t expect they still call it that…. but there was one particular lunch that always (and only) came with mexi-corn