Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)
This week, on the TToT: wild turkeys! (the kind with actual feathers, not the ones that convince you that you can catch one and have your very own, all natural Thanksgiving), getting dark way too early, Halloween, a Quinquennial Visit from Vinny the Junkman (and the corresponding archeo-cleaning of the basement), work and the quandary of caring too much, Una, Phyllis, finding a photo of a letter on a mountain side, car chases and much, much more!
(Continuing with the ‘theme’) Brought to you by Josie Two Shoes and the fine, fine, folks at the Ten Things of Thankful (made possible by the dogged determination of an English Gentlewoman who is, most assuredly, by all reckoning, no (direct) relation of CS Lewis.
On with the show!
1) Una and Phyllis
2) We had a major clean-out of stuff. Interesting process given that Phyllis is a roger and I’m a clark. clarks are not known for seeing the preservation of the past in the form of mementoes, keepsakes, knitted rugs, household expense ledgers, and most text books from school days. rogers, being the force behind continuity and tradition will tend to see things as needing to be saved. clarks are less… concrete. We do have a sentimental streak but it is not usually on display (at least as far as we can tell) and it is not aggressively acquisitive. In any event, we have these clearing of the house (and garage and shed) events every few years and it is a manifestation of the consultative process as most couples experience it.
3) A few years ago I went to Salt Lake City for business. This is a photo from my room in the Grand America hotel. The reason for this being here is that I’m grateful I found the photo. The reason I’m grateful I found it was that when Kristi moved out to Utah recently, she posted a photo of a mountain side with a big letter ‘Y’ on it. My brain said to me, it said, ‘hey clark! that letter is different. what are those Utohians up to?’ Ya gotta open the photo and then zoom in on the upper left quarter where you’ll see a big, white, letter ‘U’
4) Driving on a semi-rural road on a pleasant-enough day:
5) Difficult Clients. Odd Grat Item, fer sure. But, the thing of it, most of the time when there is stress, I can trace the source back within myself to fear. Fear’s a funny thing. “ja ja” (as Friend of the Doctrine, ClairePeek might comment). Common fear is (usually) big and obvious and obnoxious, that kid in the 6th grade of the one in the 10th grade. And, thank god for the good intentions of those of us who populate the virtual world, there is no shortage of advice and strategy when it comes to contending with Fear (the bully). But he has a sister, who is quiet and charming and, (to some of us, irresistible), when first we meet. She’s all, ‘you are this’ and ‘you are that’ and ‘everyone doesn’t understand you the way that I do’. This lower case fear tends to shape our opinions and perceptions of the world and its people, (mostly, it’s people). Her brother Fear pretty much has laid claim to the objective world. Her’s is the voice that says, ‘if you do that, they won’t like you.’ and ‘suppose you’re wrong, can we just talk for a second how bad it might turn out?’ That is the fear causes me more trouble than the, “Hey! Look at how far up we are!!” The lower case, (and way more alluring), fear will touch my arm in a way both exciting and reassuring and say, “Now everyone will read the post, be careful, you don’t want to get to weird.”
Thats why I claim ‘Difficult Clients’ as a Grat Item. They provide me with an opportunity to look within and see how I make decisions regarding the world around me. (aka ‘how I relate myself to the world around me’ which is a totally slick segue to the next Grat!
6) The Wakefield Doctrine (well, duh!)
7) Did I say there was a lot of wildlife in our area this year? (no, not that wild life… lol) This is a combined Grat Item. Work and interesting events and technology
8) Sunday Supplement Photo Insert!
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10) Secret Rule 1.3
This week’s music vid is an old cover of an older song. Given our demographic, the cover will be more familiar than the original. And, as sometimes happens, the cover is, imo, superior to the original (even allowing for musical tastes).
A cover band that’s better than Elvis? Don’t tell that to Grandpa, Elvis is his idol.
It’s not so odd to be grateful for difficulties, they teach us more than the easier things we go through.
lol I won’t say anything if you don’t say anything.
Interesting, I like Cheap Trick’s version more for the arrangement (power guitars), the singer is pretty much reading from the sheet music otherwise.
true
Well, U is close to Y in the alphabet, and only about 40 miles or so apart in geography, though there is quite a U/Y rivalry, too. Glad that the mystery of what letter it was on the mountain is cleared up! BTW, there are other, smaller letters sprinkled up and down the Wasatch front, marking where other (high) schools are located.
It (the letter on the mountainside) in SLC did have a certain collegiate font-look to it.
Thankful for the wild life but-not-a-“wild”-life LOL.
hey go (or ‘good‘ lol) to ‘see’ you again!
Nice thankful list. We have a lot of turkeys around too. We have a tough time decluttering too because I don’t like to save a lot of things and my hubby does.
Awww, beautiful Una eyes.
I love, this week in your photo descriptions, how you describe the scene outside the window. Interesting perspective.
this describe the photo thing is very beneficial, I stop and, in trying to describe what I believe I see, often see other things.