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Post 22 the Wakefield Doctrine (‘so…tell us again about how each of the three types live in a different world’)

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

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Finally! this 30 day challenge has become difficult! Prior to this morning, I haven’t had to sit and stare at the blank computer screen, any longer than would be normal,  until this morning.

Wait!  (ticker tape noise in the background)…. this just in!!

[“Your list clearly has many a story behind it.. stories which I hope to hear one day. And then there is the lingering thought of what titles, names and experiences would populate my own list. I love this! Love it as only a Clark trying to pass as a real person could love it!”]

“Your list clearly has many a story behind it… there is the lingering thought of what titles, names and experiences would populate my own list. …as only a Clark trying to pass as a real person could love it!”

…comment on yesterday’s Post from writer of Achieving Clarity

Above are two versions of the quote (of a Comment), that forms the basis of today’s Post. Both are included that I verify my status as a clark (predominant) with a secondary scottian and weak tertiary rogerian aspect.

Sorry. I’ll try to be more direct, more scottian, if you will.
Reading ‘Achieving’s’ Comment on yesterday’s TToT Post made me feel good. What makes (the Comment) the basis for a Post is not what she wrote, rather it is in how I related myself to it.
I read the Comment. I thought, ‘I should use that Comment to start a Post’… I read the Comment again and I thought, ‘yeah, but I gots to edit out some of it or I’ll sound like I’m being….’

cha-ching!  That, that part about, how, I imagined, Readers would respond, were I to simply cut and paste the entire Comment (into a Post).  That’s what today’s Post is all about.  My primary concern about using the Comment was:  what would Readers think of me if I put in the entire Comment? This little/subjective/totally-in-my-head assessment of a future event in which un-specified people would react in a certain way?  that is an example of me ‘relating myself to the world around me.’

(You know what I like the most about you Readers? It’s that no matter how different you are from me, you have that quality. Curiosity and self-confidence when you come across an odd idea… an idea that would make 80% of the general population immediately ‘turn the page’ while muttering something about “…frickin wasting my time.”
you Readers, on the other hand,  will either laugh or smile or raise an eyebrow and  think to yourself,  “ok… I got a little free time. show me something weird/fun/interesting.”  ( Now, some of you will say out loud, “hey!! come here look at what they’re is trying to get away with today! what a riot this Doctrine it… I love this guy!”)

So. Today we have a real world example of the core principle of the Wakefield Doctrine. The reason we make such a big deal out of learning to recognize the characteristics of the three worldviews (clarks/Outsiders and scotts/Predators and rogers/Herd Members)  is it puts us in a position to appreciate ‘how the other person is relating themselves to the world around them’. The Doctrine is not about ‘knowing about the other person’… hell! any personality types systems will let you do that! The Wakefield Doctrine is about ‘appreciating the world as the other person is experiencing it’.

What happened to me this morning is that I saw a Comment that complimented me, my writing, the Post, the effects of applying the principles of the Wakefield Doctrine and I instantly/instinctively/naturally thought about it’s effect on the Readers in ‘the world out there’ and created what I thought was the best strategy.

that is the Wakefield Doctrine. for me, a clark (Outsider worldview), the world and everything and everyone in it is ‘out there…apart-from-me’ and (as an Outsider), my primary concern is to not be too noticeable, to not standout too much (my secondary scottian aspect is what will make sure I’m not ignored…lol). And so, I thought of the best way to edit Achieving’s  Comment. That is an example of my clarklike strategy.  This, of course, applies equally to those of you who are scotts or rogers, consistent with the character of your personal reality.

 

 

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Well, what exactly do you want to know? Whether I am a clark or a scott or roger? If you have to ask, then you need to keep reading the Posts for two reasons: a)to get a clear enough understanding to be able to make the determination of which type I am and 2) to realize that by definition I am all three.* *which is true for you as well, all three...but mostly one

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  1. zoebyrd says:

    frist and I will ask again… so hows this working for ya? This everyday thing I mean.

  2. zoebyrd says:

    ok so I mean ….not what you addressed in post… well dont btw… but are you meeting your goal of figuring out the next doctrine related step? That was the goal right?

  3. clarkscottroger clarkscottroger says:

    yeah… I think…. that and renew my drive to do this thing (the most outstanding characteristic of my effort to write this blog) has been that fact that I get more out of the Doctrine than I put in… it has never been work to write these Posts and yet, there is a time to grow beyond what has been the manifestation of this drive/enthusiasm (I hate the expression, ‘take it to the next level’)

    you know what I mean?

  4. zoebyrd says:

    didnt know how to paste a pic here so will send it in email… seemed pertinent.

    • zoebyrd says:

      That is supposed to say ” Well done” in the first comment…. and yeah, I get it… there is a constant push /pull to do the blog /quit the blog… despite my investment in it at any given time… WTF is that about?

      • clarkscottroger clarkscottroger says:

        I had a real clarklike answer, but I suspect that (at least for me)… this blog represents the reason I have you and Lizzi and Cyndi and all the rest of the ‘people’ out there that I have some form of relationship with, no matter how casual, it is/has become important to me…

        • zoebyrd says:

          Way to resist the clark-like answer….but I think your roger is showing. …hee! Clark is a roger…clark is a roger!!!

          • zoebyrd says:

            Sorry I couldn’t resist the retaliation….I do believe you haranged me once with that….not that I would hold a grudge or anything. …lol!

            • clarkscottroger clarkscottroger says:

              lol
              (you shoulda seen what my real clarklike answer)…it involved the best of pop Buddhism with a possible mis-remembered quote about desire being the root of all suffering and…as if that weren’t enough…. why ‘desire’ is a total non-starter (for the happy life set)… (hintL: something about anything that can be identified as (and object of desire) is, by definition external to the self and therefore, by one way of looking at it…impossible ever to become a part of (the agency of desire)
              ….should I go on or have you had quite enough? (you know I can keep this up way, way long time….)