Thurston Thursday (the Third) the Wakefield Doctrine “…yes, it *is* a video Post!”

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Hey, you got questions? We will totally answer them, you know.

clarks: the Outsiders, for them the world is ‘out there’

scotts: the Predators, live to act/act to live

rogers: the Herd Members, they know that the universe is quantifiable and there are Rules (‘referential authority’)

 

 

Hey! I got a Comment!  from Noah Conti @ yahoo.com, and he says,

This post presents clear idea designed for the new visitors of blogging, that really how to do blogging.”

I suspect someone’s soon-to-be-world-famous-personality-types-blog is on someone’s spam list!  lol

 

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‘rainy Saturday, Easy Post’ the Wakefield Doctrine

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine (the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers)

hey, call us tonight! 8 to 8:45 pm  we promise to be there *

Our steadfast friends, Janine and Kate and Stephanie and Kate and Amy and Considerer and… Cyndi  do week in retrospect Posts. Well, actually not all of them…just a few of them, but they are still Friends of the Doctrine so go read, already. In any event, at the Doctrine we don’t so much do a ‘week in review’ as much as a ‘since-we-started-writing-this in review’ Posts. (Mostly, but not exclusively on weekends and then only when I read one of those ‘Related Post’ suggestions at the bottom of the Post, usually I use the ones that either a) make me laugh or 2) make me think, ‘what?!?! I wrote that?  what the hell!

So here you are:

‘but, thats impossible!’ clarks, the Wakefield Doctrine and changing reality

Welcome to the Wakefield Doctrine!  The only self-improvement Movement that is based on the fact that all people are born with the potential to experience the world in one of three characteristic ways, as a clark or (as a) scott or (as a ) roger.

(What do you mean, tomorrow’s guest  ‘is not lined up yet’? How can it be Thursday frickin morning and no guest arranged for Video Friday!!??)

The reason that we call the Wakefield Doctrine a ‘self-improvement Movement’  is that, despite the fact that we all settle into one of  three personality types (usually by the age of 4 or 5), we never lose the capacity to experience the world the way that the other two types do!   As  a self-improvement movement,  we believe that change and development can only come from the individual. Furthermore, it is our conviction that most conventional approaches, belief systems and treatment modalities such as  MBTA, Oscar, Meyers & Briggs, and colorgenics*,  totally miss the mark because they insist on a  focus predicated on what is wrong with the individual.  This is not inconsistent with the ‘disease model’ that dominates most sort of the disease model, ‘cept they are talking about your life, your actual reality that you live and breathe in every day. They want you to believe that it is you that is the problem, not ‘the world’ (or the people in it).

(Seriously…you are supposed to have at least a hint at who tomorrow’s Video interview guest was going to be!!  “We have the rest of today”…now what the hell is that supposed to mean?!)

This is different!  Here at the Doctrine we say, ‘hey, it is not you! It’s the world that you are living in!!’ That’s right, you read that correctly. We maintain that most of the problems that people encounter, on a day-to-basis is a world that is a perfect reflection of their personality type. A clark will encounter a world that has everything they need to be healthy, yet perpetually dissatisfied outsiders; the scotts reading this will look up from their computers and see: prey and predators and a world of action and adventure and our rogerian friends will bask in the glow of knowing that they are the center of the universe and (because of this smug knowledge) will know that all is right with the world.

( So, what you are telling me is that we don’t have a guest lined up for tomorrow’s Video Friday??! I don’t care who you thought you had! No, we are not going to do a re-run! Get someone on the phone and set up the interview).

Sorry about the slightly contrived-sounding asides in today’s Post. The fact of the matter is that we have come to like the idea of interviewing people for Video Friday, but the person I thought I might get, I still have not made the connection with in order to do the interview. Anyone of you Readers up for a telephone interview about the Wakefield Doctrine and it’s benefits? Write a quick comment (your email won’t show publicly, of course), I will follow-up and let you know how these interviews are done. Actually, no secret there; I get in my car, put the Wakefield Doctrine hat on my damn dashboard and dial your number. I ask questions about what you like about the Doctrine and how you explain it to people, we chat a little and thats it! All in about 8 minutes. So write me a Comment, already!

Well, lets put up a video and we will hope for the best. Hey, if tomorrow you have to sit through a video of a clark explaining about clarks, don’t blame us! Hey! did you know that Jimi Hendrix was a clark? Well he was!

 

 

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the Wakefield Doctrine ‘…a unique, useful and fun way to understand the behavior of the people in our lives.’

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Will be posting a reminder of the Wakefield Doctrine’s AP/AS/SH1 which is to commensurate2 at 3:30pm tomorrow Thursday the 9th. You are all invited to call and join in the discussion.3 There will be a raffle4 and refreshments. And….and you may bring a blanket, in case you feel a need to napate at any point in the hour.

There are some who are advising me to ‘stop being so….weird/silly/funny’ in my approach to trying to present the Wakefield Doctrine to an increasingly larger audience. They suggest that, while it may be valid to have fun while trying to show people the benefits of this unique perspective, I am limiting my (potential) audience. To their credit, they did go to the effort to come up with an amusing example of what they meant: ‘Martin Luther never told jokes’5

So…those of you inclined to write Comments, speak of your opinion on this matter…( er  please.)

….

(no, don’t!)

….but
(come on! you’re doing so well with this so far….)

(…remember what Molly said and she’s right ya know)

(sigh)

 

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1) Advanced Placement/ Afternoon Special/ Study Hour

2) a deliberate rogerian expression

3) …I forgeta

4) for a Wakefield Doctrine Official doctee, of course!

a) hey, it happens, gimme a break

5) Martin Luther:

Martin Luther (German: [ˈmaɐ̯tiːn ˈlʊtɐ]; 10 November 1483 – 18 February 1546) was a German monk, former Catholic priest, professor of theology and seminal figure of a reform movement in sixteenth century Christianity, subsequently known as the Protestant Reformation. He strongly disputed the claim that freedom from God’s punishment for sin could be purchased with money. He confronted indulgence salesman Johann Tetzel with his Ninety-Five Theses in 1517. His refusal to retract all of his writings at the demand of Pope Leo X in 1520 and the Holy Roman Emperor Charles V at the Diet of Worms in 1521 resulted in his excommunication by the pope and condemnation as an outlaw by the Emperor.

Luther taught that salvation is not earned by good deeds but received only as a free gift of God’s grace through faith in Jesus Christ as redeemer from sin. His theology challenged the authority of the Pope of the Roman Catholic Church by teaching that the Bible is the only source of divinely revealed knowledge and opposed sacerdotalism by considering all baptized Christians to be a holy priesthood. Those who identify with Luther’s teachings are called Lutherans.

His translation of the Bible into the vernacular (instead of Latin) made it more accessible, which had a tremendous impact on the church and on German culture. It fostered the development of a standard version of the German language, added several principles to the art of translation, and influenced the writing of an English translation, the King James Bible. His hymns influenced the development of singing in churches. His marriage to Katharina von Bora set a model for the practice of clerical marriage, allowing Protestant priests to marry. (courtesy of wikipedia.com  and them)

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the Wakefield Doctrine ‘Always Chilled…Never Heated’

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Finish the Sentence Friday.

(a ‘blog hop’ that is being: sponsored,  promoted, hosted by, enticed-into-by-the-charms-of, held-in-a-metaphorical-gymnasium-on-a-Friday-night, on-the-list-of-charming-old-homes-to-tour, the central feature of the blogosphere and experienced as the high point of the week at the BB&G,  courtesy of the Doctrine’s three favorite Bloggarini : Janine ( Confessions of a Mommyaholic), Kate (Can I have another bottle of Whine…), Stephanie (Mommy, for real) and Dawn (Dawn’s Disaster)

(…be still, my dog(s) of war…just walk away”)

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“If I were stuck on an island, I would like to have…”

the following in no particular order or emphasis:

  • Ginger and Maryanne
  • an internet connection
  • the body of a 19 year old (gender optional)
  • the mind of my present age
  • 1 of my childhood friends
  • 3 of my adolescent aged friends
  • 1 of my teenage years girlfriends (real or imagined)
  • my first car (1964 Chevy Bel Air station wagon in faded-to-orange-blue paint)
  • a contract to complete the Wakefield Doctrine book (currently in ‘pre-write’)
  • the physique to wear shorts without looking: a) silly, b) old or d) excessively gay (not that there’s anything wrong with being gay)
  • an endless supply of BLTs (despite the climate there is always magically un-adulterated mayonnaise)
  • a boat (just for sitting in and looking at the Island from the middle of the lagoon, with Maryanne waving and what I would swear looks like Ola in a clearing in the jungle)

Hey!  Somehow I have this little darling up at the beginning of the eponymous Friday morning…. hey!  don’t be afraid to call in tomorrow night (if you find yourself in a place at 8:00 pm EDT where you know where the kids are, and they seem to be happy and quiet or you have no plans and you feel like something that will challenge your beliefs and amuse you in ways that you haven’t been amused since…oh I don’t know… since, before girlfriends and boyfriends, husbands and wives, children and favorite pets became the central organizing feature of your reality.  call and you might find yourself enjoying, or not who can really say for sure?

 

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Afternoon Call-in Special Today! at 3:30! the Wakefield Doctrine (think of it like a ‘live’ Post that you co-author with others, it really is a lot of fun)

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Today at 3:30 EDT we will have the Call-in line open.  the number to call: 1-218-339-0422  access code 512103 # 

As the Title of today’s Post implies, a call-in show like today is a chance to talk to others about the Wakefield Doctrine, ask questions, offer opinions and gain insight. It’s got everything you could want, except for the Oreos and Milk!

the Wakefield Doctrine, a theory of personality,  maintains that we are all born with the potential to experience the world in one of three characteristic ways (‘worldviews’), as the Outsider (clarks), the Predator (scotts) or the Herd Member (rogers). At an early age we make one of these three our predominant worldview however we never lose the capacity to experience the world as do ‘the other two’. For the Wakefield Doctrine, personality types are simply the result of the normal, appropriate and successful responses to the reality that we are experiencing. A clark, as a person who experiences life as an Outsider, tends to be very creative and socially challenged; a scott who grows up in a world which tends to be hostile and very direct, exhibits an aggressiveness and a confidence which reflects the world as they are experiencing it and a roger, being a Herd Member, seeks to understand the Rules of proper behavior and longs for the security of tradition and lasting culture because that is what best expresses the sense of belonging to and being related to (nearly) everyone and every thing in their worlds.
The Wakefield Doctrine says this: learn the characteristics of the three worldviews, observe the behavior of a person and infer the world that they are responding to in their day to day actions. When you succeed in doing this, you will know that person, in a certain way, better than they know themselves. Employing the perspective afforded by the Wakefield Doctrine, you need never find yourself saying, “….why in the world would they want to go and say a thing like that?  I really thought I knew them better than that.”

Thats a little starter view. Here are some talking points for today, but!  we hardly ever stick to suggested outlines with these here Call-ins here.

Talkin’Points and such:

  • Considerer wrote in a Comment: “…My main question at the moment is how is it possible to get unhooked from the ‘should be’s?
  • Lise’s ( a roger) and I were discussing a person in the office who, while being new and understandably unskilled, was making a mess of a part of the job the other day. Lise and I agreed that he was a clark and was really trying hard, but ‘did not have a clue’ as to how bad a grasp of the job requirements he had….were… lol  or something like that. In any event, I said something to the effect that while I understood what he was going through, I didn’t think anyone could have changed how the episode (being discussed). Lise for her part agreed with me but said,  ’I know he meant well, but the way he was acting made me mad’  I stopped. It struck me immediately, of course she would say that… it was a response that sprang from an emotional perception (notice I did not say, ‘an emotional reaction’) that is consistent with the idea that rogers live in a personal reality that is fundamentally different from that of a clark (or a scott, for that matter). Very cool
  • Cyndi’s adaption/acquisition from her scottian aspect the perception of being ‘filmed before a live audience’

 

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