Wakefield Doctrine ( the theory of clarks, scotts and rogers )
Warning!! The thought supplanting1 today’s Post Title is more a framing of the question (and) description of the obstacle encountered (or to be encountered ) by all of us attempting to employ the Wakefield Doctrine as a system of self-improvement. While the Post Title implies that there will be specific suggestions (composed of ways and strategies meant to over-come this inertia), if you don’t read exactly what you are hoping to find, please do one of two things:
- …keep reading. Read tomorrow’s Post and next week’s Post(s). (Better yet), read some of the Pages of this blog, listed at the top of the page, these will contain most of the knowledge about personality types and behavior, as currently accepted by the Doctrine (or),
- …write a Comment! If you are reading this, you are familiar, or at very least, conversant with the principles and precepts of the Wakefield Doctrine. Write a Comment, share with the other Readers what you have encountered in your own life as it pertains to the ‘the problem’ i.e. the inertia of old habits. We want to hear what you have experienced, good or bad, useful or useless. We all totally know that the better the understanding of ‘the problem’ the more likely the solution will be found.
So what is this ‘inertia of habits/behavior’?
Our elegant phrase, inertia of habits/behavior, is meant to describe the tendency to repeat what you have (repeated) previously. All people behave certain ways in certain (typical) life situations, (nothing new there). We also maintain the same types and styles of behavior over time ( in the parlance of the Wakefield Doctrine we are clarks or scotts or rogers). And we all have met with the same frustration when, for one reason or another, we have wanted to change our behavior. You know that when you encounter a person who acts a certain way, lets say, for example they are too aggressive (or too non-aggressive), whatever. Despite your desire to change how you interact (with this type of person), despite your best efforts to alter your own responses to this person, you invariably ‘forget’ and revert to your typical style of response. This is the ‘inertia of habits/behavior’. Now some of you might say at this point, “Yeah well what do the physicists say? Huh?”,
Inertia is the resistance of any physical object to a change in its state of motion or rest, or the tendency of an object to resist any change in its motion. It is proportional to an object’s mass. The principle of inertia is one of the fundamental principles of classical physics which are used to describe the motion of matter and how it is affected by applied forces. Inertia comes from the Latin word, iners, meaning idle, or lazy. Isaac Newton defined inertia as his first law in his Philosophiæ Naturalis Principia Mathematica, which states:
The vis insita, or innate force of matter, is a power of resisting by which every body, as much as in it lies, endeavours to preserve its present state, whether it be of rest or of moving uniformly forward in a straight line. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inertia )
- put on those high-heeled shoes and get those rogers to drop to all fours when you walk in the room (or)
- find a secret way of actually having that scottian girl in psych class acknowledge that you sit behind her (and have for the last month) and maybe even be able to talk to her in way that doesn’t a) make you think you are reading from the wrong page of the Michelin Easy Phrases for the Tourist who really, really needs to use the bathroom and then order a Gourmet Dinner or b) have her reaching into her pocket for the speed dial on her cell phone (or even)
- stop falling for the rogerian bullshit or the predatory groping of your scottian best friends… (hey, we’re not talking about you…these are true other rogers and scotts…heh heh
Hello…
I cannot resist this one because it comes back the a question I asked in my Blog (or in a comment on a WD’s post) and to which the doctrine has not yet found an answer (or so I was told :D)
The frame of a question leading to the main question… hmm! okay, to the point if possible…
You talk about typical behaviours (according to each personality type) in typical/critical (maybe) situations… no matter how hard we try – regardless of personality types – to change our behaviours to what we wish they were, it is a lost cause… we inevitably revert to the old habit of how we use to behave in such a situation. I can relate, I did that loads of times… BUT less and less…
Would we still do that (revert I mean) if we were aware our old behaviour?
Awareness of ones behaviour in a given situation, but most importantly what triggers that particular behaviour in that particular situation should help tremendously to get the wanted behaviour.
It is possible because I did it, probably not with all the situation that provoke my unwanted behaviour (shameful in regard to who I am when I think of it afterwards… that is what unwanted means here), but many of them anyway… it has to be an conscious work on oneself and a lot of stubbornness… almost like psychoanalysis but without the psychoanalyst… am I off subject?
What I really wanted to see is this: if you know the cause then you might have a better chance to understand the consequence, which ultimately enables one to adjust the outcome when comes the same cause again… maybe not what I wanted to say completely… I said that before but I will repeat it: “It is such a mess up there; I would not like to live there even with running water!”
Therefore, I ask again
Why, oh why, do we settle at an early age into one of three personality types?
What does predispose an individual towards one or the other or the third?
I think it is an important question, to understand even better some of the inertia factors in each of the three types…
Now, I believe I have brain damage for the rest of the weekend… so I have to sign off for a bit :D
Letting you ponder, I wish you all a great weekend!
/Claire
hello… clark!! (lol)
Your concerns and questions, Claire are welcomed and, in fact, they are what we need to further the Wakefield Doctrine! By virtue of my being a clark, I feel comfortable saying, “I am fairly certain I know what you mean”
I will endeavor to address your questions, with the understanding that the medium of email/Comment/Reply is limited by the skill of the writer, which I will try to compensate for by the use of repetition and hyperbole. lol
I also expect some of the others will weigh in, Molly and DS#1 and Ms. AKH are totally on their game and with any luck we might get the attention of the progenitor roger.
The easy one first: “Why, oh why, do we settle at an early age into one of three personality types?”
” What does predispose an individual towards one or the other or the third?”
We don’t know…yet.
The not so easy one next: “if you know the cause then you might have a better chance to understand the consequence, which ultimately enables one to adjust the outcome when comes the same cause again… maybe not what I wanted to say completely… I said that before but I will repeat it: “It is such a mess up there; I would not like to live there even with running water!”
I read this as referring to the persistence of our behaviors and our (apparent) stubbornness when it comes to altering behavior, even ( or especially when) an improved outcome is the goal!
(Right here is what I dislike about this medium, the following will be useful only if I correctly understand your “question”. But what the hell, someday I may get paid by the word, so I better not stint now.)
My suggestion is to ‘re-visit’ the core concept of the Wakefield Doctrine, which is that we are not clarks or scotts or rogers because of our habitual behaviors and reactions and such. I am a clark because I live in the world of clarks, scotts are not predators because they are naturally sexy or ridiculously pushy, they are because they exist in the world that is best described as predator-prey and rogers (they) are looking around their world, they see the herd and they understand that, just as they can count the individual members of the herd, all the world is quantifiable.
The thing of it is: we are all acting reasonably. We are all acting appropriately to the nature of the reality that we find ourselves in (and have since some time in early childhood).
That may sound like bad news, but it is not…
….think of it this way: if it were not for the need for income or the necessity to successfully interact with non-clarks you would not have an issue… (er maybe not such a good example). lol
All three personality types have (apparent) weaknesses and (sometimes not as apparent) strengths, we clarks have the weaknesses that we do when trying to work with the world at large, but we are the funny ones and we are the ones with the never ending curiosity (both a good thing and a bad thing) but most of all we are the ones who are creative! The real creative, not the ‘re-package old parts’ creativity of rogers or the “HEY! THIS IS NEW” creativity of scotts, but the genuine article. We (can) create the new thing.
I am getting a bit off topic. I will come back later after some of the other Comments show up.